Recent content by davechaos

Perhapd we have all reached the point where we ave stopped worrying about what might happen??

Hiya Don't give up...I bet when you get talking to people here that you will find that some of us are really genuine people...much like yourself. Yes there are goods and bads in all of us but you will find that the majority of the people here are not like that...there are some wonderful people...

Hiya Fuzzy... There are loads of people here that will help you out and become good friends...after all I have met my bestest bestest bestest mate on here. She is great...I hope you find the one person that I have...and if you ever need me for anything then give me a shout.

Hiya Michael I have read what you have said and what everyone has written...and I have to say that for many people they may say that stopping your medication is stupid...but ask yourself why you have done this? You have said that you need a transplant...my friend had one after 2 and a half...

War...U2...kind of reminds me when I was about 10...haven't heard it for ages. My favourite track...Wire.

I think that is what we all like about the internet...how many times guys have we typed something and then decided against it...you gut reaction is one thing...and then your sense of reason kicks in and you are able to revise your response. I treat the internet as a training ground for me. It...

I am not the best at advice...I kind of just say what I think is the right thing...so here goes. You will be surprised at the number of men who actually like someone who is shy...quiet...mysterious in many ways...as opposed to the brash...loud...in your face girl. The more you like someone the...

Now there is a good point...I suppose we wll realise how lucky we actually are when we are not affected by those kinds of life changing events. Thanks Lonesome....

Well if I am not optimistic then I worry...I have gone through so many things in my life that I really shouldn't be so optimistic...so trusting...so loving...but those are traits of mine that I cannot hide...and will not hide. The decisions I make though are things that I am trying to come to...

I am 37...have spent the last 6 months seeing a counsellor and feel a lot better for it. I have grown in so many ways. You are never too old or too learned to change what you know...give it a chance and work with it...you will get there if you really want it. It has to be like that otherwise...

Well let us all hope that that one thing looking over us keeps the nice things in our lives for us.

I worry about things all the time and this tends to be insular for me. I never let on my feelings to anyone and often the pain that it causes can be horrendous. How does everyone else deal with these issues? I try not to worry and I have grown a lot stronger since going to counselling but when...

Thanks Silvernight...is it because you feel that you can't approach males or is because your experiences have been bad? It is interesting that through the responses so far folks that many of us have perceptions about the opposite sex and yet we don't seem to know where this may have come from...

That is a dilemma...lol. I am generally a better optimist now than I ever used to be but I worry too much and this means that I often think the worst case scenario rather than the best case scenario. It sounds like you may be a bit of a cat...have you always found that you tend to land on both...

I am thinking right now that I wish I was cuddled up to my girlfriend whilst she is on holiday...and how much I love her and miss her.