Recent content by hbkdx12

well, this thread has certainly turned into the battles of the sexes

POF is absolutely terrible. Only good thing is, when you actually get a woman's attention, it's not very hard to hold onto it because the site is so prevalent with ******** and dickheads. But it's a free site so how much can you really expect. Even as a man, i don't think women have it easy...

All of those examples work off the idea of finding people you relate to and people that relate to you. How do you adequately do that if you decide to ignore people when they try to talk to you and be relateable? why do you feel that way?

They don't owe me a thank you anymore than i owe them a response to their thread but the point is feedback, no matter how small, has a tendency to go a long way. Imagine if you were new and made 6 threads that came from the heart and were important to you and no one decided to do so much as...

Yes, i'm really getting that bothered by it because as socially awkward as we all are, we're not socially awkward beyond reproach. Not a single one of us would be here if we didn't want to reach out for help, cope with our problems and find guidance. So when you get that help and guidance...

The fact that he would make a joke about the idea that you guys would still have sex even though you're telling him you don't want to suggest that not only is he comfortable with where the situation is but he's comfortable with the idea that you'll stick with the situation (occasional sex with...

I was tempted to buy bastion but i really hate xbox live but it seems like a cool game. There are a lot of worthwhile downloadable titles out there both on live and PSN All the really good AAA games come out during the holidays (which really sucks from a consumer standpoint) and if you're...

Honestly, as a guy i've done the same thing (although usually its before sex became involved. At that point things become different) It's easy to tell when someone wants to commit more or advance things further than you do. So he genuinely might like spending time with you and being with you but...

Are you guys still sleeping together even though he's become distant? If not then it doesn't really seem like he's using you. it just looks like your holding on to something that isn't there.

I completely understand and sympathize with that statement but... ...people were thanked in the actual threads, either in general (thanks everyone...) or specifically. I don't expect anyone to explicitly thank me in their threads because if the thread has a lot of responses, it's easy to...

I didn't go seeking these people out to just give them my advice out the blue. They asked for help

All the advice that I've given stemmed from posts and threads where people were blantantly asking for just that. Most notably in the loneliness forum. So i never wrote to anyone as if to say "oh your way is nice but my way is better...do this" So if someone doesn't care for or care to use my...

and I've come across various people, posts and/or threads where someone is looking for advice or guidance. In the time that I've been on this site, i've PM'd about 6 or 7 people offering advice, maybe try to get more background info as to offer better advice, or just offer them someone they can...

Ahh shucks :p nice nails tho :)

a lot of times, things aren't as bad as we think they are. Remember, things can always be worse Congrats! :)