okay, so, just before march, I met someone, who genuinly seemed interested in me, typical situation after a few weeks of meeting, talking, going on a few dates, meals out, it got to the point where I started to like him quite a lot. I plucked up the courage to tell him this, and my reply was, "I'm sorry but I'm not wanting a relationship atm" now, I'm an understanding kind of girl, and I just let it be, we started sleeping together (unacceptable I know!) after the first few times I told myself I can't do this blahblah, It will make matters worse for myself, and you bet I've done just that. I've fallen for him, completely. I've told him and he just tells me he feels bad. I do not know what to do, and I can feel him drifting away from me, he used to make so much effort, he'd text me in the morning, so I had anice text to wake up to, he'd ask to meet me at least once a week, he'd take me out, and he'd be lovely and we'd both put effort into spending time with each other. Now? It's all me, I am lucky if he asks to see me, he doesn't hardly bother texting, I do not know what to do, and I'm starting to feel like I never really meant that much, someone help!