Recent content by helen

It got me beaten up tonight. I somehow talked myself into going on the works' Christmas night out - well, I embarrassed someone into inviting me - and met all my coworkers before. They were all actually quite nice (probably because they were drunk) and I sort of latched onto a girl who's been...

I think it's a shame that people are saying they'd walk away because someone else starts talking to the girl. For all you know, she could see you walking away as a sign that you're not interested in her.

I feel uncomfortable posting a lot of the time because I don't feel qualified to give people advice most of the time, and I don't want to just be moaning every time I post on here. I wish I were more useful but it's hard.

Aww, I know the feeling... I think I'm probably the female equivalent of you!! Do you talk to girls very often?

no-one anywhere will ever love me. i'm a freak and the only thing i'm good at is making other people miserable. anything remotely nice would be totally wasted on me. sorry for ruining your thread.

absolutely rock bottom. right now i want to die.

wow, that thing about not wanting to be seen in your own clothes, is that because you're worried about the way you look or something? i might start doing it but i think im too old for my school uniform now :p

i'd love to do something with medicine - doctor or nurse - but i never had the money or the guts to go to university.

wow, i'm surprised someone remembered me! i get what you're saying... i just mean in this thread in general. i'm sure there are things red piper likes doing that can help him socialise.

i'm glad you say that bluey. i was always scared that if i told someone that they'd think i was a freak (if they didnt already of course!!). are you sure you're not just saying that to get a kiss? :D

Ah, you're too kind :P

i probably cry nearly every day. its ok at night when i'm in bed but i get worried when i start in work.

i suppose in a way its come about from anti-elitism and eglitarianism - like you say, theres a lot of emphasis now on building self-esteem. everyone is as good as everyone else, everyone matters, everyone's opinion is equally important. it's well-intentioned but it's not perfect: like you say...

please dont take this as me being funny... but instead of worrying about what youre against, maybe you should worry about what you're FOR?

trust me, i know this feeling! in fact it'd be nice if people were a little two-faced about me and tried to pretend they can tolerate me. as shallow as that is it'd make a nice change. what bluey says makes a lot of sense though, id imagine.