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Prostitution will only fill a void of not having sex. I'm sure it does nothing to 'cure' depression or loneliness or lack of companionship

Same. But we are too passive. We need to be active. Do you see guys like you succeed? Looking at that list, I'm sure some people like that succeed. Give yourself perspective, look for examples of people like you. That should give you hope.

I am a guy. I like girls.

Not many to ask. Also they don't understand. Or they don't know what to do. I agree with you but easier said than done. As I said, they don't understand. Or they probably won't. The people I know are different than me. They don't seem to have problems.

Only in comparison to everyone else. Everyone else seems to have a lover. Yes. I have no one who makes me special. Never had a girlfriend.

It only seems like you have no chance. Only "seems". There are chances. You have chances. You have to make chances happen. You have to be around chances. That's the hard part.

Who in your life always lets you down? Myself. I want to improve but I do nothing. I do a little and then stop. I try and fail and stop trying. I need help but I don't ask for help. I cannot shift responsibility to someone else. I cannot blame someone else.

Never been set up. I would rather meet through friends. Meet causal and not as a date. A set up would have too much pressure.

I am over 20. Never kissed, never had sex Never dated, No relationship

Hello everyone (first post) Anyone only shy when it comes to love? I can talk to some people. I can even approach sometimes. It's hard and I get nervous but I can do it. If the talk is 'safe' then I am good. Safe is stuff I could talk to anyone. Safe is everyday and boring. If the talk is...