Only shy when it comes to love

[i a]

Hello everyone (first post)

Anyone only shy when it comes to love? I can talk to some people. I can even approach sometimes. It's hard and I get nervous but I can do it.

If the talk is 'safe' then I am good. Safe is stuff I could talk to anyone. Safe is everyday and boring.

If the talk is 'risky' then I get scared. Risky is talk of love and liking someone. I can't do it. I distance myself both physically and mentally. I go away. I change the subject. I stop talking.

Anyone relate?

Thanks for reading!

i a

Iovita Avelina

 

[Sci-Fi]

I can relate, I find it difficult to open up and talk about love and stuff. It's even worse when people want to push it and force you too.

Welcome to the forums.

 

[edgecrusher]

im shy normally. but im REALLY shy when it comes to talking to a girl that i like. like ridiculously shy.

 

[ShybutHi]

Yeah i can relate with you there i a. I never ever talk about "risky" subjects to friends about people i like or whatever. Although i know they wouldnt go off and start gossiping they are just not like that it just makes me feel a bit uncomfortable talking about stuff like that i guess i am just really not used to it.

Its a bit too personal for me im not good at talking about personal stuff with people especially when it comes to things like emotional issues.

 

[Mr. Sir]

Are you male or female?

 

[i a]

Are you male or female?

I am a guy. I like girls.