Recent content by LonelyDesert

Oooops, my bad. Facebook has been my new soap box to stand on and ***** about, sorry.

Facebook!? I'm close to 40 now (within months) all my friends have an account, but I don't see the need. Not because I do not believe in it, but a simple phone call is all I need or better yet and actual written letter (rare), sitting at the computer like right now is against the grain for...

Interesting post?, stealing is hardly a word to use if she is interested in you, however what goes around comes around, keep that in mind. I'm a bit older than the norm here, but never, ever mix work with your private doings, trust me on this one, how does the quote go " don't honeysuckle where you...

interesting post's, to be weak or to be strong????? the lessons I learned are to be honest. I can only speak from a mans point of view, but it is true, women are attracted to men who are solid and confident about themselves, and yet love a man who is emotional and inflective. One of these...

well I would have to agree with the Smiths comment, Marr does lighten up the lyrics. Ian Curtis of Joy D. is also great, so since those are from my DJ days almost 20 years ago, here's some new ones that I found along the way. Men: Matthew Ryan Willard Grant Conspiracy Red House Painters/...

Unrequited Love?? depends how you view this, are you friends with this person? or is this someone you think about but do not really know? your three years is really nothing if it is true unrequited love, try fifteen for a woman you know and feel an absolute attraction too, and wish someday...

look to hard and you will not see, expect nothing and everything will come to you, famous lines... I do not begin to understand how relationships work nor feel any authority on them. However I have noticed that when I'm at my crossroads and I question or I have doubt, then I'm less...

Depends on where you live and what you like to do. A lot of it also depends on how your vibe is. For instance I'm friends with most of my ex's, so talking with my last one, I asked her if any guys have asked her out, she said no way, she's giving off the "I'm in a relationship" vibe, I asked...

Your on the right track Callie, accommodating people is awesome, thats more than I usually do. If my friends come over then they know it will be vegetarian and usually they love it, breaking bread with people is important where I live, it brings us together. I have been a vegetarian for 19...

I got late to this post, older women? well that depends. I'm 39 now and ten years ago I've dated a beautiful woman from Yosemite who was on the cover of AARP, she was a year younger than my mother and I was a year older than her oldest child, so things really don't matter that much. I have...

The fact that your asking these things of yourself is reason to celebrate, trust me, a true failure wouldn't even bother to post anything, let alone think about it. I go to bed thinking I could have done better each and every day, no matter how hard I work or try, I feel I could have been...

Geeky, you should listen to yourself, I have friends who are in their mid-40's and now have no jobs, no careers, no future and they have college degrees, talk about sadness and loneliness, the greatest thing for you is that you have all of your future ahead of you, that's something. Start...

Ignore her, it works every time. I just became single after a 8 year relationship, and I started dating (what a stupid term) again. One thing I've learned with women, act like you don't really care, they will call you. Somehow it's still the jungle thing, someone who is after them isn't a...

Ghost I'm new to this site, but I have felt alone most of my life, I'm now 38 and I've had to deal with the same things your going through right now, how do you cope? if anyone here could answer that they would be the next Dr. Phil, it's hard to cope, each day at a time I suppose, "things...