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A few more recent comments by others followed by my own (internal) responses: 'There are worse things than being single!' Well, I wouldn't know...all I know is being single. 'It just isn't your turn yet.' Great, so I'm just waiting until it's 'my turn.' Who decides when that is? 'Don't...

Hey, everyone. Been a while since I checked in. I wish I had better news, but I don't. Still single. Still working myself ragged to find someone. But it seems no matter what I do, no matter how much or how little effort I put in, I have no choice but to wait until I get 'my turn.' I hate...

I'm 35 years old, and a male. I'm a virgin in every sense of the word. I'm still waiting for my first kiss, first relationship, first EVERYTHING. I don't know when things will change. All I know is this: I AM TIRED OF WAITING. I AM TIRED OF BEING LEFT OUT. I AM TIRED OF ONLY BEING ABLE...

Hello, all. Been a while since I checked in. Wish I had better news to report, but I don't. I'm still single. 16 months of struggle, the last 12 of which have been truly hellish. I HATE IT. I hate this more than anything I've ever had to experience in my life. More than I knew it was even...

I'm 35 years old. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm still waiting for my first kiss, and all of the other things that come after that. The idea of actually being intimate with someone is hard to fathom, though I would like to experience it soon. I am aching for some affection. It must be an...

Thanks for the replies, everyone! This has certainly been a well-read thread. While I don't believe there is some conspiracy to keep single people out of the 'couples' club,' it definitely has felt at times that the odds are against me. I try not to look at it that way, but it's VERY...

I scored a 38. Extreme loneliness. Given that a long-buried need for romantic love has resurged stronger than ever, I am not surprised. I am aching for some genuine interest from a woman and for all of my efforts, I feel no closer to finding love.

Yes, I'm still single, and yes, it still sucks. I feel like I'm working myself ragged just to get the consolation prize while I'm surrounded by people who do nothing yet still get to savor the jackpot. For those of you who've read my other posts, you'll recall that I'm currently seeking a...

In the sense of being single, then yes, I am spending Christmas alone. One of the most special wishes I made for myself back in January when I started actively looking for someone was spending this Christmas with her. I was so looking forward to us having our first Christmas together this year...

Pretty lousy. I didn't acknowledge my birthday this year, and that hurt. But trust me, it would have hurt far more to celebrate the day given how I feel right now. Christmas is coming up and the ONLY thing I wanted for Christmas this year was to have someone special with whom to share it...

This will be a rough Christmas for me. In fact, it will be the most difficult one I've had to deal with so far in my life. Truth be told, I'm not looking forward to the holidays at all. I can't wait for this miserable year to be over. It's been truly hellish for me. The ONE thing I want for...

One of my main reasons for seeking a relationship is to have the chance to experience romantic affection for the FIRST TIME in my life. I just want to find her so we can hold hands, kiss, dance together, and cuddle on the couch watching a movie. All of the more sexual contact will happen...

I'm 34. Never kissed a girl. I'm REALLY hoping to change that in the coming year, though.

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Comments by others followed by my own (internal) responses... 'It will happen when you least expect it.' Yet, if I have the attitude that I expect NOTHING, or that I will continue to be ignored by women romantically (as I've been my whole life), then I am told that I have a 'negative...