Recent content by LonelyLola

Hello everyone, It has been a while, but I am alive! In fact, I feel more alive than ever before. I spent all of June living in a monastic school helping teach little Buddhist monks English. Those boys stole my heart! Now I am sitting in my room in Thamel, Kathmandu, Nepal, relaxing and getting...

Thanks everyone! Well, I've been in transit for almost 30 hours now, just 2 more until I reach the final destination. Then I am resting and tomorrow (it is about 9:30am on friday morning here in Bangkok as I wait for my connection) I start on my orientation and tour and training. I am so...

Dear friends of ALL... I haven't been around lately, things here have been busy. I am leaving in just a few hours for my adventure. The adventure to change my life! Many of you know I went thru a painful breakup and lost all my will to live.. That is when I found ALL and wow, you guys made a...

Too often rejected guys think they are being used stead of just enjoying a friendship. I know I've spoken with guys who think that they being nice and friendly to a girl should result n her wanting them, and when she is only interested in being friends they feel cheated. Thing is, we don't...

Yeah I have so many male friends who have cats! I think my oldest brother is taking the kitten, so I get to visit! I was so sad I would go away and come home to no little kitten.

When I was first sick, I was bedridden due to intense muscle pain. Snce then, I just got in the habit of watching tv, using he computer, playing video games in bed. The problem being that bed is not a motivator, it is a soft wonderful trap. Nw I have to force myself to get up, move, not call...

And besides, I see so many unattractive people in relationships. Why? Because obvs they find their partner attractive, even if I don't. Attractive is subjective. You may think person a is gorgeous and I may think me a dog, you may think you are ugly and I may think you are sexy, it is all...

Perf! I found a kitten the other day, but this one was only 4 weeks old... I heard crying from my bedroom, and couldn't find any of our own cats hurt or crying. I walked out back to check the one last place, the crawl space under our dining room (which is accessible from the backyard) and there...

This, or perhaps you are projecting your own issues and reactions on them. However, if not, and people do withdraw or feel uncomfortable around you, it's up to you to decide whether you want to act "normal" so that people will be comfortable around you, or just be yourself and wait for someone...

I don't necessarily think she was using you on purpose. Most women don't maliciously use the people in their lives. Some are mean and do it but not all. What worries me here is the abuse aspect of the relationship. Working with women from abusive situations I have noticed that even when they...

Learning to care for myself isn't selfish, having the freedom to finally do something completely for myself.

Oh I've been around Xbox for a while, have a respectable gamer score (of which I have not cheated once of an achievement). For anyone who wants my user name is lacylola. Add me! :)

Either tell her you think she is staring at you and it makes you uncomfortable, or move out. She may have issues, you may be imagining it, or maybe it is just a misunderstanding.

So the ex loaned me the Xbox 360 for a while, which means I get to play Xcom, Fallout, Left 4 Dead and more. So happy right now. Maybe I loved the Xbox and not him? Just kidding. It is nice to talk civil and share stuff tho. Anyone want to add me on Xbox live?

I was called Mama Cass when I was younger, and I wasn't even very fat. I grew up with a father who constantly told me I better watch my weight because I don't want to end up like my mother. High school was okay, but I have had guys call me cunt, slut, whore, etc in my adulthood. And then the...