Recent content by Nicki

Do they have treatment for depression where you live? I went to counseling once for depression. I put it off way to long because I would swing between thinking "surely it isn't that bad" when I didn't feel so bad to "why bother?" when I did... Finally when I wasn't feeling so bad I admitted to...

What I want: friendship respect, tolerance, open mindedness a willingness to make our relationship a priority loyalty consideration equality honesty trust healthy body, mind and spirit financial stability (not necessarily plenty of money, just takes care of business!) participation in the...

I never really had this issue. I do see it in some of my friends and feel great sympathy for them as it taints their chances for happiness. How can we truly love or bond with someone we don't trust or respect? I once dated a guy that was constantly expecting me to leave - to the point he was...

I don't think it is ever selfish to want to be happy. After all, you want them to be happy too. It becomes selfish when we want our happiness no matter the cost to other people. Point of fact, I've got to get my own issue settled because the other men I have tried to love have been hurt in the...

There's way too much for me to do. Tons of yard work, the car needs cleaned out, basement and attic bedroom needs purged of old and useless stuff and the areas need to be cleaned. There's always laundry, dishes, vacuuming and dusting. Right now I can't seem to find the care factor to get going.

I'm not really sure why we get hung up on the past. I get hung up too. It would seem on men that neither deserve nor want me. I'm 44 and this just happened to me for the 3rd time. I try to move on. I just wind up with men that I don't really love. I'm at the point right now where I've been shown...