Recent content by Revengineer

I made it through one and a half years, and the environment had changed very drastically during that time. It seemed the company was expanding in a direction where I was no longer needed. By the end my job had become irrelevant, and I pretty much lost all motivation and stopped coming in on...

With all respect, I think this is something that many men simply can't relate to. We don't see 95% of women as potential threats. We can't imagine that having tons of willing options can possibly be a bad thing. If one's experience is that they struggle to get ANY positive attention, their...

We humans evolved to crave companionship because that is what ensured survival of the species. Gotta make those babies somehow. Our desire for fat and sugar works the same way. Unfortunately, blindly pursuing a relationship can also be destructive to our well being. Too often we end up with the...

If most women actually think this way then I might as well give up. :(

You must be part of that fabled 10% of people who prefer 50/50. If only there were more of you. :P

http://money.cnn.com/2015/09/07/news/economy/who-pays-for-first-date I guess some things never change...

Better idea: keep the photos, but only make them visible after a certain number of messages have been exchanged between two parties. Or... have them available immediately if you pay a small fee. I should start my own dating site and make millions. Heh heh.

Update: she randomly reappeared a few days ago. I messaged her just to say hello. She told me things got "a little overwhelming" which made her quit for a while. So I guess that solves the mystery. We are messaging sporadically... like once a day. To be honest it's starting to feel like she's...

Douchebags gonna ******. That's all.

So true. The nasty inconsiderate guys ruin things for the rest of us. For most men being on a dating site is like trying to find a job in a shitty economy. You send out tons of applications, but if your resume is less than perfect you might as well be invisible. To put it bluntly, there's...

Yes this is an online dating thread. You have been warned. So I made a profile on OKCupid a while ago just to try it out. I'd sent out a bunch of greetings and until yesterday had nothing to show for it (curse you, male/female ratio!). Then last night out of the blue, someone actually...

I'm sorry but it looks like you scared her off with your grand proclamations of affection, when all she needed at the time was a friend to talk to. Even if your intentions were good it was simply the wrong time to say what you said.

That came across as a bit meaner than I intended. My apologies. They probably are still fond of each other or else they wouldn't still be in contact, so there's that at least. Of course they have the right to attempt to rekindle the relationship if they wish to do so. It's all a matter of how...

I concur that it's in both of your best interests to break things off and move on. You guys don't really seem to care about each other anymore so what's the point in dragging it on?

There's this idea going around, that basically says you should try to be good to your "future self" by being productive in the present. So that in the future, we can look back to our "past self" and be glad we did something instead of putting it off. It's kind of funny but makes sense if you...