Recent content by SilentThinker

I believe everyone has a few moments where they are nasty.If you really feel sorry for yourself,it is time to forgive yourself and move on in life. Now is the time to make the right choice.

I feel more of empty towards the fact that I have mostly nothing to converse with most people and the stupid loneliness comes in and I would become empty. Anyway,that is your personality.Some personality can have lesser friends than others but my advice is,to mix around around friends with the...

For me,it would be playing games to drown my loneliness or sorrow.Games are 24 hr.But sadly it gets boring after sometimes.Then it would be a new game and the cycle continues..

I am still 19 so I have yet to face the situation where I lives alone.For me to cope with loneliness,I would go to places to have fun like the arcade or the library. If I am lucky,I would call out friends to eat with me and go out play games like poker or monopoly.Hope this helps.

Some people wants different "answers".Some wants to have solutions and the other to have someone to empathize them so that they can feel better. As for Gruebrush,I understand how you feel.Life is so full of regrets.When I looked at someone,they have friends and I have none.They have laughter...

It comes from low confidence which comes from different events and situations.For example,I know of a friend who rarely talks to people.When I see him in a big group,he shuns away. When I asked him,he said he got nothing to talk.Even if he would be talking,he think that no one would be...

Christians are still people and it does not mean if they attend church,they are holy and perfect.If you expect them to be different from what they said the world,you are mistaken. For the bully part,honestly speaking,there's nothing much about this part which I really hate.I was built like a...

Though I never have the work life experience only recently since I went for attachment.I also hate the fact that some people leave you simply because the place you are in is different or they have some other so called "better" friends that they can hang out with. Dun give up the hope of not...

Dun blame yourself for this.Sadly this world is for people who talks loud than people who play quiet. The feeling of being in a group but not being able to converse with them is tough.Everyone is talking and I would be listening to them.When I talk back,I hold back again because I was afraid...

I kind of understand that.When I open my mouth,I immediately doubt what I say.My mind would be full of,"What if they do not listen to me?"But in the end,I always end up regretting of not saying anything. My advice is this.Build up the confidence you have.Dun be afraid of the what if this and...

I really hate it when you have a group of people who hanged out for 4 or more years, in just one month, the bonds with them just get broken off. It all started when the girl A starts to disappear and remains mia(she is also my friend), we just stopped meeting. She stopped picking up calls and...

For me,it is like sleep,eat,play and school. There were times that I was wishing for a phone call or a sms like saying,"Let go out and play/eat/talk."It is like trying to find a rabbit in the lion's den. Plus,I am those kind of person who can go out to places and do not talk at all.Either I am...

Forgiveness is better for me.It is really tired to hold grudges against a person because for me when I hate the person,I keep thinking of the person.The more I think,the more angry I am. Still,it is your choice to forgive or not.xD

A friend is someone who accepts the way you are and are good buddies in life.

No,it is not wrong to have expectation with a friend.You definitely will have expectations from a friend,so dun worry about it I have a lot of zero communication until I initiate it.The truth is,most people go for the talkative one than the quiet one.It also takes a long time to have a friend to...