Recent content by Vic Sage

Well in less than 24 hours, I'll soon be in the same room as the ex, for two-and-a-half hours. Luckily I don't think the teacher is big on assigned seating as I just realized our last names begin with the same letter. I alternately feel apathetic and nervous, and I'll likely be nervous until...

Pretty much everyone I relay the story to has trouble understanding the quick jump to relationship, too. It's funny, had I called or emailed or texted my troubles with it, somehow I'd be the bad guy/jerk. To what little credit I can receive, I've avoided further checking up. My plan right now...

When I found out about it that Saturday, I thought about my options. Basically they were to pretend I don't read those texts/pretend nothing happened or to send her a sensitive email telling her that I'm here. Again, want to stress that I'm not a sleazebag looking to score on a vulnerable...

Well, you bring up an interesting point. One of the only rational ways I could think to explain this was that it was a case of two grieving individuals coming together. The guy was a friend of the recently departed, so they all knew each other. I try to be objective a lot, and I have to admit...

Friend, that's always the goal, but I've seen my summer slowly detoriate. I'm on a loneliness forum I found while looking up loneliness on wikipedia. We do what we can.

I hope her poems will include her feeling like a selfish little girl and causing wreckage in her wake.

One of the ironies is that she's a "poet." Aren't they supposed to be aware of feelings? I've resisted the urge to check for about a week. I think I learned my lesson. One thing that scares me about myself is that I keep taking risks until it doesn't pay off. Probably why I shouldn't go to...

I don't know... that's not really my style. I don't really like to play head games or whatever. Seems a bit too close to all that PUA crap.

Okay, let's all agree to disagree, and... ask the OP what happened!

Well I guess the only thing to ask now is how it went...

Wait... PUA=Pick-Up Artist? Ohhhh man, that Mystery guy is such a cheesy ******! Dude, you do not need any woman that would be tricked by any of that crap. Is any woman still tricked by that crap? Probably the types that would get a lower back tattoo... in 2010.

I don't know. You already left a voicemail. Give her some time to answer it. It's bad to be a pussy, but also bad to seem like a creeper. But that's just my advice.

Wow, really? PM me the story, if you want. Obviously you can change names and ages/locations. I do. The description I thought of was... sociopath. Lack of empathy, self-awareness, etc. Now, there's a difference between the Patrick Bateman sociopath and her... but you get my drift.

Well, as far as being scared... I don't mean scared in a "I'm a creepy guy and/or violent" way. Scared as in "I've only had one previous boyfriend and I'm barely out of my teens" way. The acceptable scared. What's weird about this dude already being in the picture is that he wasn't the crush...

Ok, going to give people a semi-Cliff's Notes of this. We'll see. Apologies for walls of text in advance. You have been warned. Beginning from early April through late June I was in a relationship with someone. I am in my mid-to-late twenties, she was in her very early twenties. Things...