Recent content by Waterbug2

Happy BIrthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to NinjaCat. Happy Birthday to you. Now in your head, make a wish and blow out your candles. Shhhhhh don't tell your wish, just make it happen. Hope you have a fabulous day of your own making.

Please don't. Please please don't.

1. helped grandson repaint bicycle 2. helped son clean carpets 3. sat in warm sun and yakked with a gin and tonic/twist of lime 4. went to dinner with family, had tons of laughs and even dessert 5. came home watched tv went to bed A better day than normal.

Yes. Portland area. Or N. Idaho. Depends on the day.

Your tests came back positive......

Wow. Just read through all 25 pages of this very interesting topic. Here's my take: 1. I love a man that is so polite on a first date. Opens doors, pulls out the chair, asks what I would like then orders for me. I don't find it controlling, just thoughtful and makes me feel like he cares. 2. I...

So I should shut up and go away? Ok. You got it.

I don't even know what to say. I can;t even hardly type with the tears streaming down my face. You have so much life left in front of you while I am towards the end of mine. One online relationship is just one online relationship. Please do not let it ruin you. When my husband died at a very...

Awww Ninjacat....I too am mature, and I too have been in a relationship that sucked the life out of me. I put up with stuff I never thought I would all for the sake of a warm body and not to be lonely. Didn't work. I was lonely anyway, just as you are. From your language I am deducing you are...

Does the loneliness end? Or am I going to be a lifetime member? Welcome to the forum. I am too new to give you much help other than to say "hey".

I have this taped up in several places of my home. I read it all the time to remind me I have value without someone else validating it: Susan Jeffers wrote: "As you begin to understand the immense power and love you hold inside, you will find an unending surge of joy, light and love that will...

Seems there are so many of us in the same boat. I praise God every day for another day of good health, money for groceries, etc. What else can I do? And so each day is a blessing in its own way. I won't waste my life worrying about an accident, being homeless or other bad things. Doors open...

Karma doesn't work. The bad just go on living leaving their destruction behind to sort itself out. Been waiting my whole (long) life being a good person waiting for karma. Not happening.

This morning. When was the last time you drove to the darkest spot you could find just to look at the stars?

I am obsessing about my lying cheating stealing sociopath ex and how it is not fair that he took me for everything and then married someone with money and got on with his f-ing life while I am completely alone and trying to figure out how to start over with nothing. Geez, two years now. Get over it!