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Wow, I leave this place for 14 hours, come back and there's 5 more pages of responses.. I'd like to respond to about 10 of those posts but I don't have the time today.. schoolwork and making money take priority over forum correspondence. Contrary to what people might think, I have a life...

I'm trying to hold in my laughter as well after reading your short post. After all the points I made, you couldn't refute one, not even one.

I remember reading that article before and I'm glad you brought that up. I do not agree with the premise of the article. First of all to have rejection, you have to have an offer available to reject. Now how do guys know which girls are available (offered) and which aren't? They don't. So...

I found this thread through Google and after reading the first 11 pages of people bashing Firebird. I felt I had to sign up to jump in here since I can relate to OP's experience. And my "arguments" are not "pointless and incoherent." You just can't refute anything I say because you know I'm...

Yes, and the following quote is evidence of that.. Even though it's more about looks than women are willing to admit.

Yeah, you couldn't bash me if you quoted the whole sentence so you had to only take part of it out of context. Not exactly that bright are you? Can't refute any of my points so you resort to bashing. How mature. Girls and guys both go off of looks to some extent. I've never heard anyone...

If a guy and a girl really like each other, neither would care much if they were asked. The main goal is to take it to the next level. The guy you describe maybe wasn't as interested in her as she was in him or he had some other issues to deal with. I've never heard of guys suddenly losing...

Thanks.

I never meant to imply that you'd never get rejected. You would definitely increase your chances and your options by asking out men though. Just because many men prefer to do the asking, doesn't mean they aren't receptive to being asked. It takes much of the pressure off them. Ok, the guys...

What do you mean by that?

How many times did you try? Also, are you overweight/obese? The reason I ask is because many men and women automatically reject people who are overweight. It's just not attractive and conveys that you don't care enough about yourself to stay in shape. Even though about 66% of the US...

I think it's a little of both. In some cases, it's a way to give hope, even if it's false hope. In other cases, when people quit actively looking for a mate, they focus on doing things they enjoy and end up meeting someone "when they least expected it." It was not expected because they were...

Sure. Say a girl likes a guy and actually decides to approach him and ask him out, and she's rejected. Then in her head, she just convinces herself that "oh he must be just too scared to get into a relationship" or "he must be just too scared of me because he sees me as aggressive" or other...

That may be the case but you don't actually think that just as many women approach men as men approach women do you? We're not talking at your school, we're talking in society in general. Were these girls clear and direct (ex: saying "do you want to go out sometime?") or did these girls give...

First of all, many women are shallow. Just like many men are shallow. So let's get that out of the way. Actually I'd say there are more shallow women than shallow men. I've known and heard of many men who will take whatever they can get for relationships, hit and quit, or whatever.. but I...

If she's entitled to be bitter, why is the OP not entitled to be bitter? I just asked her in my previous post about all that stuff and she ignored it. Probably because she doesn't do those things. I agree with OP in the sense that I believe women have it easier than men in the dating scene...

Sure, tell me about life. How many guys have you approached? How many have you asked out? How many have you sent messages to through match.com? I ask because your original post had the tone of some bitter woman who feels entitled to things she never received. And just because OP's post was...

Firebird, I sent you a PM, check your msgs. Until you start approaching guys and asking guys out, you have no right to complain. You are not entitled to get approached by guys just like guys aren't entitled to get dates/numbers from girls. This is true. I'm a 25 year old virgin (waiting...