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I haven't been here for a while. That doesn't mean that my life has gotten better. The past months have been full of depression, have still struggled with alcoholism, rejection, failure, etc. The title of my post has to do with the rejection feelings I have these days. Facebook has positive and...

Yes, I have also thought about that and I totally agree. My parents made many mistakes. I also made a lot of mistakes with them because I grew up feeling angry at them so I wasn't very nice either I admit. They never admitted that they did wrong to me and they would always blame everything on...

Hi everyone. I decided to write this post because I would really like to share this experience and for once close this chapter of my life. I apologise in advance, as this will be long. I have an older brother and for some reason, he has been mean with me since I can remember. I know brothers and...

I have been thinking a lot about this lately. I believe that romantic love is not something necessary for you to achieve your dreams and peace of mind. I think nobody should look for someone to fill any emotional gap. However, I think that even if I don't need romantic love to survive, I think...

Hi. This post is definitely one of the most interesting ones I have read on this site. At first I thought you might be lying to yourself but after I read all the responses I understood that many people can achieve what you did. I really admire that. Honestly, I don't know if I can be smart or...

Hahahahahahahahaha of course not, it is so absurd to go shaking everyone's hand and ask if they have a bf. You obviously didn't get my point. I was just trying to make it clear that they didn't know each other well enough to know more about their lives, about something so important as to have a...

I would agree if they would have been friends for years and know each other very well. In this case, they were barely getting to know each other, the guy didn't even know she had a bf. Then, why would someone ask for a favour to me in exchange of doing me another favour (invite me out to...

And do your friends ask you out on a date in exchange of a favour? It is not the same, there are different things. You've got a point there. However, I picture myself in the situation. I would have tried other resources. Why didn't she ask for help to her bf? If the bf had no idea how to...

I have been in similar situations. I respect the opinion of everyone here, however, I do think she knew what she was doing. If a guy asks me out for dinner in exchange of a favour it is VERY obvious that he is interested in me. She would have to be very naive or very stupid to think it was only...

What might be silly for you, might be painful to another. When I see a person suffering for something I find pointless, I never tell them they are silly or anything like that. It is not right to minimise other people's problems when when we don't agree. I just don't find it constructive. After...

I never thought I would get all these responses. Thank you everyone. I agree with what was said here about the odds of finding someone are too low. That is something I have thought about for some time. That is why I concluded some months ago that if you put yourself on the spot, you might...

Thank you. I am quite aware that looks aren't everything. As I mentioned in my post, I am not really into handsome men. Maybe only to watch them from far away. I do believe personality is important because in the end you will deal with the person, not with the body. However, I think that there...

I don't consider myself as the ugliest woman in the world, however I am far from being beautiful. I am a bit overweight, I have small breasts, manly face and one of my front tooth is slightly chipped. I had a nose job 7 years ago, but it only slightly enhanced my face. I still get asked every...

Thank you so much for your response. It is quite helpful. Two years ago, I attended to A.A. Meetings. I failed miserably, twice. I have problems with commitment in general. Their suggestion is to stop drinking all together. Even though they ask for you to live one day at a time, I couldn't stop...

I am receiving online support which has been working until now. I don't feel confident with anyone at work. I am almost 30.

My direct bosses are nice with me and supportive most of the time. However, other people can be a bit rude just because they are "above me" professionally speaking. I know those things happen everywhere, however I always feel very weak and sensitive to handle those situations. I am very insecure...

Hello everyone. I've been away from here for some weeks. All my life I've been struggling with depression, loneliness, etc. I have written about all this in other posts. I have a drinking problem, and I am working on it. It will take time and I am trying to focus on it. I am a very sensitive...

At least I am. I don't think I could ever find someone who understands my pain, my issues and my past.

Oh yes! I know exactly how you feel. For instance, yesterday I was thinking the exact same thing. I have few friends. One of them invited me to go to an event that would start at 8 pm. She said she would invite a friend. This didn't really intimidate me a lot, as small groups of people...

Thanks. I do understand people don't have to out of with that and that is why I am alone. I agree totally with you. That is also the reason why I have been trying to change for the past years. Before I couldn't even take an order from anyone and now I do. Some people have told me they do notice...