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I had been fine all this time. been telling people past few days just think positive. try and have a good attitude. The irony of it that the next day I had a bad day. I must have left the doors to my mind wide open or something. In came the depression and I could feel my heart go down like a...

I'm really sorry about your bestfriend and that guy you like. That must be agony to watch.

Hiya guys and girls. Have any of you experienced anything like this? So my marriage ended in February, at work I share an office with two colleagues and both of them are getting married.............and there is wedding talk...oh boy is there wedding talk. I've also got a bit pally with someone...

As I'm 38 I don't think I would go any lower than 30. I would probably date a lady who is 48. I've been a toyboy once but no higher than ten years.

Maybe the online support is your first steps before the A.A, Meetings, sort of walk before you run type of thing. Well done for staying sober and for going to the gym. Keep doing both of them and I'm sure your confidence will grow. I know it's easier said than done but when you start to feel...

I'm no professional but your on the right path cutting down on the drink, if you can get it to a point where you can cut it out altogether all the better. I know it will mean you will have to face all the feelings that you don't want. Drink is only masking the problem but when the drink wear off...

Is there any support locally to help you, with the drinking or someone to talk to with what your facing? Is there anyone at work your pally with or feel confident with? Sorry with all the questions. I've had to put up with undesirable people (can think of worse things to call them) within my...

1 Your my pal and I love you like a brother, but tidy your own mess up, I've got enough to do, I'm not your dogsbody. 2 I should have picked you and I didn't. I'm so sorry, I deeply regret it. I wish I could go back and pick you, I now think you could have been the one. I'm a fool. 3 I looked up...

Hay my friend, Having felt the sting of depression and loneliness I feel for you. I'm brand spanking new here so I'm sorry if I ask some stupid questions. Whats the situation like with family and friends? Dose your employer know what your going through and can he/she/they offer you any form of...

Must.......... stay.......... positive..................drat :(

Funny but over the past few years it seemed all my fears came true one by one............ so with that in mind I'll say my fears are....... 1 becoming highly attractive to women. 2 become multi millionaire. 3 increase my charisma greatly. 4 not have any health problems ever again. 5 to be...

Hiya. Just over six years ago I went through a heavy time of depression, I had never felt such loneliness (even in a room full of people), the hopelessness felt more than I can bear. I didn't want to stay in the house because I felt cut off from every other soul, but I didn't want to leave the...

North East England. :)

Yeah a few years back I had a series of disappointments with relationships (before the second marriage). It dose wear you down emotionally. When I was a kid I use to think dating was all fun and excitement. Then I found out it's all nerves, stress and hard work.

Hay Hppnssseeker, I hear what your saying, I do admire your wisdom for not wanting to rush into having a baby and to make sure the relationship was strong enough. Unfortunately I'm unsure if I can have children, I had cancer when I was a child. I had a tumor in my right butt cheek (pardon my use...

Hiya hppnssseeker, I saw the title of your post and I feel for you. I'm 38 and by now I would have thought I would be a husband and a father, instead I've got two failed marriages. So I can understand the finding someone who's compatible part too. Please don't give up just yet, my mum had me...

Thank you so much for your welcome and kind words :)

Hello everyone, I've been looking around for a community to join and hopefully belong to. Especially with people going through the same kind of battles. I'm a 38 year old guy from the northeast of England. My second marriage ended in February, but looking back I'm convinced my second marriage...