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Hi Everyone, it has been a while since I last came here and while I am glad to talk to some of you after over  a year of absence, I kinda hoped that I wouldn't feel the need to. well, it has been a bumpy ride, but the last events really broke me apart.  After a 4 months relationship with a...

Yes Every person who I don't know deserve my respect, respecting someone is not about going into the sack with someone, it's about doing the basics, such sending a simple text saying "I'm sorry but no", it's about saying excuse me, hello and goodbye, it's about saying please, manners are basic...

I have to be honest friends, the saying "respect has to be earned" bothers me greatly, it's the whole reason why people treat each other like honeysuckle and feel fine with it. Love has to be earned, respect is something every person deserves from his surrounding, you treat people how you wish to be...

it's not about providing an explanation, it's about simply saying "sorry, no, bye" , instead of making the other feel like a dumb ass.

How can you develop love toward anyone, if people refuse to respect on another, prior to love. For many women I was involved with, respect was just a recommendation and I honestly can't really understand why would you do stuff like ignoring instead of doing the graceful thing and say "listen, I...

The problem is my trust issues, there are some feelings I have and stories which I will take to the grave and not tell anyone, but I am mostly scared to believe in something which doesn't exist. Last time I opened up to a girl, she got married and used me as her psychiatrist for 6 months...

I've met this woman on a dating site and seems like things are going well,  we talk every day, we meet, things are just moving on remarkably well.  she is a very sensitive person, came from a house full of sisters and looks like she grew up well, maybe that's why she is so supportive and sweet...

I agree, in a way it is against our very nature, even though some men might be drawn to it because sometimes when it comes to  the matters of the heart, it is much easier to talk to a woman instead of with someone you consider a bro. However, eventually, at least for me, it gets to a point where...

Hi Guys, Well it has been 6 months since I decided to focus more on myself and become less focused on finding a partner and it did bring results. Anyway, I was seeing these 2 girls and of them started to really annoy me, first, she filtered me out on the phone for an entire Friday and on Sunday...

I think the problem is with your approach to an initial acquaintance, it is not recommended to talk/text too much between and before these dates, as you are not together and things are pretty fragile at the beginning, plus you are getting yours and hers hopes up.  I also think that you should...

Well I gotta be honest with you mate, sure, it is possible that she is into you, but you should play it safe here and not for her, for you... I've been through something similar 2 years ago, had her play me on and off for an entire year, so I'm saying go for it but careful, if you notice too...

Actually my one and only true love was the one setting up the pace when we met, she approached me first and was really pushing us to be together, even when I was a bit confused. I loved her more than I loved any other woman in my life and I made the first step with most of them.

I see, well regardless he may be confused and think how to cope with it.  Do you have some non-sexual intimacy? I mean, like hugging, kissing, holding hands etc?

Hi Nicolet, I am sorry that you feel this way, obviously, it's very frustrating to be in a committed relationship, yet not entirely there in all aspects. I do suggest, however, is that you try to understand your partner, when you tell your other half "I don't want to have sex with you but I...

isn't it possible for you and your kids to live with him over there? unless he is a soldier, I'm assuming it's possible

I just tend to believe that some people keep friends from the opposite sex, in order to have someone to lean on when their other half treats them badly. I heard from some people that others have used them and completely ignored possible feeling they have toward them, which in my opinion is...

I mean real friendship, not the hang out with the gang kind of friendship. My therapist told me that I should try a different approach and agree to befriend with a woman, but I've never believed you can develop a decent relationship with the opposite sex, as a man, I don't see myself able to...

Hi Guys, It has been a difficult couple of months, ever since leaving my previous job I feel a lot worse, because back then  at least being that big-shot guy of the company kept me going and nowadays I'm just one guy trying to make a name for himself in some other company, which I know for sure...

"why are you over 30 and alone?" as if I ******* chose this

well I feel ya man, but still you can also take a positive note from this experience - you had someone, she really liked you which means it will happen again.