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Learn to play an instrument...seriously. It takes your mind off of the nonsense, and makes you focus. If you get good enough, you can learn to write songs to lift you up. I do that a lot...most are terrible, but make me feel better.

When I was a no girlfriend getting teen, I thought that whoever coined that phrase was just showing off. Now, I know that the loss of one love can lead to a new and even greater love. The saying goes: God never closes a door in your life without opening up a window in the other room. They...

You may be difficult to figure out, but you are not unlovable. You have rapidly changing dynamics too your personality. Truly ask yourself whether you are truly complicated or if you are just muddying the waters of your perception. There is someone out there wondering where you are right now...

I have recently gone through my fair share of serious and profound emotional pain. There are not words to describe it without repeating myself. What I find amazing is that this kind of emotional, ground shaking, soul cracking pain is incredibly common. I can't help but look at people and...

Maybe, just maybe, you are a loner. I am. I am introverted and introspective. I need serious alone time to reflect. The danger there is that reflection can turn quickly into rumination. That is where you begin to just dwell on negative thoughts. So, let's just say that you truly are an...

Thank you for the kind words. The suicide attempt was an act of desperation committed in a moment of absolute despair. It is not my proudest moment. That part of the issue has dissipated. I will have to answer for it. Now, I am working on rebuilding. I know that all of you are correct...

That is not harsh. It is just a blut truth. Thank you.

You are not a wuss because you are afraid to love. In order to be brav, you first have to be scared.

In May, I was diagnosed with MS. I got pretty down about the diagnosis. In June, my wife of 16 years tells me she is no longer happy and doesn't want to be married. Then for three months she let me hang around growing cooler towards me while she decide whether we were going to marriage...