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    Clarification

    I'm married, too, but besides my husband I'm alone because... well hell. We moved here because of my husband's job. I don't see him a lot because of his schedule although that's improving so it helps. I haven't been able to connect with people here, unless I want to be phony and basically...
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    What was the last book you read?

    When life gets too depressing, I turn to Nancy Drew...
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    Does anyone here feel like a loser?

    It's something I don't really believe should be true about myself, but I keep being made to feel I'm a loser by my in-laws, the people where I live, some former "friends", business people, etc. And now because of changes in my appearance, I feel it from people just out in public (it's a shallow...
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    Hi everyone. I'm new.

    Omg, sorry for the mix-up re: Germany versus living in SD and learning German, I have a hard time sometimes on boards with reading too quickly. Sorry. But wouldn't it be great to go sometime and be around family while practicing the language you're learning! I've had some trouble finding the...
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    what was the last movie you saw?

    Silver Linings Playbook All 8 Oscar nominations were deserved. http://silverliningsplaybookmovie.com/
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    Hey from the new guy

    AC/DC! Nice. :) I'm musically omnivorous. The Clash, obviously (hence my username). Right now I'm coming out of my Xmas music sugar coma and listening to a lot of Talking Heads... and opera.
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    Nervous Negotiating

    I don't know about you guys, but I'm a nervous wreck when it comes to negotiating or even asking for something for myself. It has a lot to do with my self-confidence, but also with my upbringing (sticking up for myself = bad). Anyway, I came across this article today and even though it's pretty...
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    Why hello there.

    Hi Sigma, Welcome! Holland is so beautiful (including the drunk farmers - ha ha). There's a section here where people share their artistic endeavors so maybe you'll let us see your drawings sometime. Hope to see you around the forum.
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    Hi everyone. I'm new.

    Welcome! I think it's great that you're making so many efforts with hobbies, but I do know exactly what you mean about not being motivated to go out so much when you're doing it alone. I have the same issue. And I'm sorry about the crying (even if it meant a free dessert). I'm glad the cats are...
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    Hey from the new guy

    Hi Skid Row, Welcome! That's great that you play guitar. What are some of your favourite bands?
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    An encouragement for new members

    Hi guys, I came here briefly last year and then dropped off - here I am again! Female, married, living in Cali. Everyone is so self-righteous/self-centered/phony and I'm desperate to move back east. No friends out here. Family is a mess. Problems with doctors. Jeez. I'm a joy. :rolleyes...
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    Post a link to a song you think will make everyone feel good and loved, or inspired

    Technically this is about a drug trip, but it reminds me of those great, open days when you can just let go.... Makes me smile every time. [video=youtube]
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    Missed you old friend!

    With a bit of tweaking this could work as lyrics. I like it!
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    Type the lyrics of the song thats stuck in your head

    Nothing Is True - Jim Carroll Band You get nothin' back for all you've saved Just eternity in a spacious grave She said, "Nothing is true, everything is permitted" Things just go from bad to worse Starts like a kiss and ends like a curse But nothing's true, she said everything is permitted...
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    what was the last movie you saw?

    Dead Ringer "For Baby Jane people!" :D
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    What are you thinking right now?

    Lawyers, lawyers, lawyers....
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    I know nothing about girls, need some advice..

    JMO, but I'd hold up on the "she shouldn't be too busy" assumption about Saturday. You don't know what else she has going on. I think the hard thing to keep reminding yourself might be that while she instantly became a major part of your emotional world, the same may not be true for her. You're...
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    Thoughts.

    I wouldn't say never ever, but definitely agree not to trust 100% until they've proven to be trustworthy. Trust is like respect - it has to be earned. Oh dear. :( Don't know what to say to this because I don't know the circumstances, but sending you a hug. I'd say nothing will be good enough...
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    Do you ever feel like if you say or do something, it'll come off as creepy?

    I don't worry about being creepy, but a weirdo, if that makes sense. I'm very open and outgoing when it comes to general interactions, and where I come from it's normal (and considered a good trait) to smile and say hello, make a bit of small talk when out and about, and not take oneself too...
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    Military Life

    Hi Weretiger, I'm sorry to hear about all you've gone through. Sending you a hug. You say that now you're afraid to trust. All I can offer is my own personal experience. I was totally betrayed by someone i thought intended to marry me. I was betrayed romantically, financially, and to make it...
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