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  1. johnjohn

    have not had sex for 2 years, etc.

    Hi Caloy, I am sure that lots of people on this forum have had the same feelings of despair and loneliness, I know I have. Please dont put sex at the top of your wish list, this will not necessarily solve your problems!! In fact it can make them worse LOL! Please do consider talking to someone...
  2. johnjohn

    have not had sex for 2 years, etc.

    yes been thinking about this one recently. Not had sex myself for nearly a year and sometimes that is all that is in my mind however, You know i am thinking now i probably dont want a serious/intimate relationship? I am sure sex changes everything between friends and if i did have a serious...
  3. johnjohn

    Newcomer

    Thanks Naleena. How are you doing? I am living alone in cyprus. will be seeing my daughter and my ex tomorrow. Never know how those meetings are going to go!!! Just wish I could hate the ***** and let go completely!! LOL!
  4. johnjohn

    Newcomer

    Thanks whyme, hope you are doing alright. I am from london where are you there? I live in cyprus now though.
  5. johnjohn

    so HOW MUCH SOCIALIZING IS NORMAL??

    Well done Bluey, It is easy to fall into the trap of going to the pub each night. And takes will power to say no when the alternative is being home alone. 3 nights seem good. Keep it up!!
  6. johnjohn

    Do psychologists help?

    Hi Lanie, Well I went to a counsellor/psychologist/Psychiatrist whateve rtag you want to give them. It really depends on their approach to your problem. sometimes helps you see why you are what you are. Mine basically thought my reaction to what happened in my relationship was normal and it is...
  7. johnjohn

    so HOW MUCH SOCIALIZING IS NORMAL??

    My daughter is the same age as you and also goes to college. We live in a very relaxed laid back invoronment too. She has always socialised and partied but during school time limits this to once or twice a week and normally at weekends. Also money is an issue too so it is unrealistic to expect...
  8. johnjohn

    New Member

    Hi well i dont know about a cool guy LOL But hey that is good for me! So who are you and where are you? John
  9. johnjohn

    New Member

    Hey Thanks for the welcome. See you are the same age as my daughter!!! You still studying? she is doing her A levels and hoping to go to university in England! Well have a nice day and thanks again. John
  10. johnjohn

    New Member

    I am English, born in London, and now live in Cyprus; I have been here now for 7 years. Not sure how well you know Cyprus, but I live in a place called Bogaz, it is in the northeast corner near to the Karpaz peninsular. It is a lovely place to live, all year around sunshine and a laid back way...
  11. johnjohn

    Newcomer

    Thanks for the welcome Bluey. No i am not worried about age as I am not looking for another wife!!! Just friends of any age or sex to "chat" to. And to be honest some of the most helpful advice and support i receive comes from people you would least expect to get it from. I know that living in...
  12. johnjohn

    Essex, UK?

    Hi Coco, talking to the cat eh?? Well things are bad, can't say i can pop around for coffee as I live in Cyprus! I am also in my fifties but also find myself alone, OK i can go out and I am quite gragarious but i still miss having that someone special in my life. But if you want to chat about...
  13. johnjohn

    Anyone here over 30/40ish to chat with?

    Hello Lonely Guy, Well I have just pushed the average age of the users here up quite a few years!!!!! I am in my fifties and have experienced the whole spectrum of lifes ups and downs. Been divorced, both parents died some time ago, my first wife died last year, way too young, and last year my...
  14. johnjohn

    Newcomer

    Hello everbody. Just joined up and this looks a great site. Hope to get to know some of you better in the future, still working my way around the site. Usually takes me weeks to get to know everything!! Oh by the way I am 56 years young, English and live in the sunny island of love, Cyprus!!
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