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I am on the page as most who say move on. If they are "too busy" and don't offer another time (whether specified or not), just move on and don't offer again until they ask you to spend time. And if you'd like to spend the time at that point, sure. No need to play a game of retaliation if you're...

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Celebrate someone's birthday. Do it to enjoy the doing and to make someone feel the very opposite of how you feel about your birthday not being celebrated by others. You MIGHT (key word there because WILL is not guaranteed, but that shouldn't stop you because the GIVING is super powerful in...

These people...

hanging in there

I'm not entirely sure why, but I made an exception of one person by not cutting her off after all of it. Maybe it's because I was new to this kind of thing. Never before had I found myself in a situation of working to build a close friendship with someone who had an affinity for playing me...

I'm going to tell you like I have tried to show someone who has hurt me yet I remained friend to them. Do you want the friendship with this person or not? Because if you do, then so shall it be. If you were wrong, OWN up to it. Ask and BEHAVE for forgiveness. If your friend was wrong, FORGIVE...

Just out of curiosity, how did that one that only lasted a few weeks end? Was it one of those -lead you on -find an excuse to back out -then tell you about what you're not ?

At least you have a friend who calls you and invites you to hang out. I would say be grateful for that, and try not to think so negatively. Maybe your friend wants to hang out with you and the other friends, but he has to find balance for himself. Try focusing on having a good time when you do...

Try doing the smallest thing possible towards reversing it. Then another small thing. Then another. Eventually it will be done. For example. Instead of going to the gym or whatever your normal exercise routine is, maybe do something different that doesn't take longer than even 5 minutes. Maybe...

Lacrecia said it!

It would be nice to see people organize to ABOLISH online dating.

yes ever tried chunks of canned pineapple and raisins added to butter pecan ice cream by Haagen Dazs?

you can pm me anytime try to have a good day!

You have to stop wanting it to be you.

Then why does she "still deal" with them? I've dealt (DEAL) with a woman who even in trying to build a friendship that I thought she cared for has only ever made me feel like she gave a **** directly following some gesture I performed for her. At some point you want to be able to say about your...

^used to have it, but haven't had it in ages (thank goodness). I can remember trying like crazy to roll myself off the bed or couch, or trying to call for someone but apparently not having the strength to call loudly enough so that anyone would hear me (was I even saying ANYTHING?) It was always...

I've never so much as clicked on a link to an online dating site, or set foot in a place that provided the service of hooking people up, and I am 100% certain I never will. Old school dating? Thank goodness the only time I can say I did that was with a girl I was crazy about and who made me feel...

When both sides want it, there is no obstacle. When only one, there is the impossible.

Maybe you could try not telling yourself that. Instead, tell yourself you love your fellow man and woman. No one is perfect. If you can accept your own imperfections, why not those of others?