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bulmabriefs144, Yes, I suppose excessive action might be harmful...but in reality, 99% of people suffer from not taking enough action in their lives to improve themselves. Excess is usually never a good thing, but think of a pipe that is bent that you wish to straighten out, you may have to...

El Jay, Everything is a choice. You can choose how you want to view your past experiences in your life. Nothing in life has power over you unless you allow it. Our sense of regret can dominate our thoughts and cripple us towards taking actions that would create a better tomorrow for us. I've...

Defenestrate, I agree. We may not have much or any control over events might happen in our lives, but we can control our reactions to those events. In many ways those reactions are what helps us build that more fulfilling life. Love this discussion. :-)

Gutted, I agree, in many ways it IS all risk. The quote I have on the wallpaper on my phone: "Do something today that your future self will thank you for." What we call our "life" is really a collection of all of our good and bad habits. Someone who eats poorly as a habit may be obese, or...

Cool, positive feedback loops are the best. I totally agree with it not being a pua thing, it's a self empowerment/development thing... Congrats to you and your partner! My two year anniversary with my gf is coming up next week. And I agree...weather does factor into feeling good. Sun is good...

I'd recommend actively working to improve yourself. The short list: 1. Do something physical, so you like who you see in the mirror. 2. Do something intellectual, so that you can have more diverse interests. 3. Go to one new place every week and talk to one new person (2 minute conversation)...

That is interesting, so as soon as you made a small tweak to your behavior you started noticing results... That's awesome! :-) Question: since you started speaking your mind more, how are you feeling about yourself?

Always assume that she's single. One question: Are you putting off taking action because it's more comfortable to postpone a potentially awesome/awkward outcome? If so read this: http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=27445 Invite her to go make paper airplanes with you on the quad...

What women want is to be with a "High-Status" man. It's a biological response to certain traits that a man can display. What is high status, and how can I get it? For me having high-status falls into three main categories, If you have these rocking and rolling, you're 80% there, this is what...

Then celebrate and focus on the victorious half. No matter how small it is...that time that stranger smiled at you. Those small victories will change your psychology. Then, you will start to view the world differently...paving the way for more victories.

Change yourself for you. Improve yourself always. And then the girls will follow.

Whether you think you can, or whether you think you can't: you're right. It sounds very woo-woo, but mindset is EVERYTHING. This might help, it's something I've taught the people I coach...and it take 3 minutes a day: As a practice, I do the following every day. This takes 3 minutes. You...

It seems like you're hyper-pressurizing your situation. You're treating interactions with this girl as if it's game seven of the World Series, instead, a more effective approach would be to treat interactions with her as if you're playing baseball in your back yard. Something I tell my...

I'd like to talk to you about something important: the brutal cost of inaction when it comes to improving yourself and living a life that you're proud of. You know you SHOULD improve yourself, but don't because the path less traveled seems much more "risky". Well, I have news for you: "Safe is...

There can be no learning without feedback, this poor guy NEEDS to know WHY he's being friend-zoned.