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These are both good points and I appreciate the perspective. I just have difficulty finding friends I guess. Looking around on here, it seems like I am not alone. My school program is constantly throwing us together into groups and they just never seem to be helpful for the work, networking...

I think I relate totally. It's like being completely out of phase with everyone else. It just doesn't work and it turns into an exile.

Have something you have to do, or somewhere you have to go, that way you don't make the mistake of having alone time but linger too long. For your own sake, kind of be on the run. It might help make it more casual, like hey, real quick, how you doing with your classes sort of thing? Maybe ask...

I know friend zoning sucks to be on the receiving end of, but isn't that a matter of perception? I'm not judging any of the comments here in any way. I'm just quickly proposing the question for my own curiosity, what is the difference between meeting a girl and you only end up friends, versus...

Well, I am a loner and in engineering school and in my early 30's. I admittedly don't have much time for socializing which is making my loneliness worse these last few years. Anyway, Over these last few years, making friends has been kind of troublesome. I'll start with the guys I've...

So I'm not sure about university, or if I should keep going. I am an older student going back to school, I went to community college, and now I have transferred to a large university, and I am miserable. It's like a bad version of highschool all over again. I'm finishing up my second semester...

Such an example of "the grass is always greener" for me. I am in engineering school, and absolutely hate engineering. The work, the people... everything. I've never been so miserable and hopeless. I did an internship and couldn't stand how so many of the people I was around were just arrogant...

This is a particularly lonely point for me; unfortunately no. I moved last year and basically isolated myself by doing that. I've been working on friends, but really getting nowhere, which I think is because of my depression issues honestly, I think I'm putting people off. I could not go to a...

I guess I forgot that is an option to get into a system. thanks for bringing that up.

Well... that is what I'm talking about, getting the help. I am so grateful for the replies. It is more than I've gotten from any doctors or therapists. I actually fronted up to a clinic today, and was turned away and given the name of another. This goes on a lot. I can spend, and have spent...

Here I am again, sleepless and stressed out. My Clinical Depression has been kicking lately, and the more I reach out for help, the less I feel like anyone wants too. It has taken a long time to get to this point for me, and now I can't get counselors or psychiatrists to even return my calls to...