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I really want to. I'm not sure where to start though. Every time I see a girl that interests me, I can't work up the confidence to talk to her because I know I'm predominately doing it for potential sex and that just doesn't sit right with me. I hate fitting the stereotypical guy that is only...

Me either. Though I have been working out more, taking better care of myself, upped my hygiene greatly (wasn't really needed), spending more money than usual and feel a little better about myself all around. Just some nights, my mind is just racing, my heart is pounding and I just hunger for...

Ever since I became a vegetarian my libido has just sky-rocketed and I'm always thinking about sex. I never wanted it so bad in my life. Lately, I find myself unable to fall asleep some nights due to excessive sexual thoughts. Some nights I can't help but feel like the only way I can get a...

I really hope I don't run into her later. I'd be thinking about it again for the rest of the day. You're totally right! Why should I feel immensely guilty? Two years ago, I really despised the idea of a fresia buddy. But right now, it's all I really want. And I still feel ashamed about it but I...

I'm 26, will be 27 in two months. At this age, I can't help but feel like I'm just lying to myself that sex isn't the main thing I want out of a relationship and with that in mind, I'm feel like I'm just another ******* that just wants a girl for her body more than anything else. Anytime I see...

It's 4:00am in the morning and I can't sleep. I just finished listening to the girl in the apartment beside me having sex and I have such a rush of emotions right now: jealousy, guilt, shame, anger, sadness. I'm such a sick fresia. I mean really? Who the fresia purposely puts their ear to the wall...

Thank you for this. This is very accurate in the way I see myself. Every girl I'm interested in I always think she could do way better than me. It's really weird that although I'm happy with my body image, my annoying mannerisms, the sound of my voice, my wardrobe, my unappealing personality...

Isn't there anyone else out there that just feels like being romantically involved with someone is just not you? Like it would be such a drastic change to who you are? If I ever told any of my friends I had a girlfriend I think they would see me very differently. But why should I give a honeysuckle...

Yes. I know definitely need a huge change in my life. I just don't want to feel ashamed afterwards. It's like, I know I need a change, I know I will feel ashamed about the change, I know there's no way around not feeling ashamed about the change, and I know I need to say "fresia YOU" to the...

I would also like to add that I don't believe I have a choice on becoming a slave to love. Like there is a real punishment that, while you don't deserve it, you will experience it. I feel like if I never get a girl, get laid, fall in love, or whatever, I'll end up becoming be a very angry person...

Yes, that is true. Perhaps I should watch what I type a little better because I know what you're getting at. The mere attempt though at initiating sex can be taken as a form of pressure. What I meant to type was: It's very common for men to be branded as ******** for breaking up with a woman...

****! I was actually hoping you would confirm my initial expectation that the pleasure in gaining love is greater than the pain of losing love. I'm sad that I was wrong because now I have even less incentive to pursue a relationship. Thanks for the reality check though.

I think love is a lie. Affection and sexual desire is natural. Love is an idea (for lack of a better term) conceived by the human mind. In my opinion, love, in all it's beauty, is still just another flawed human creation that we probably can't live without sadly. Like religion. fresia love and...

I apologize for being so cynical, I'm seeking relationship advice lately since I've never been in one. I must ask you: Is the pain you're feeling now greater than the pleasure you experienced at the beginning of the relationship? Take your time answering if you feel like it. I don't want to...

Yeah, you're right. No point in trying to fix your bad relationship. Just break up and later on go find someone else to fresia...that's how it usually goes, right?

And this is another reason I hate love. It sucks having feelings and thoughts you don't understand because they seem irrational and insane and you never had them before. Only after you pursue an intimate relationship is when the crazy-ass, messed up thoughts have the possibility of building up...

It seems to me that when it comes to love, sex, and relationships there are several trivial rules, obligations, aspects etc. that we are expected to follow, obey, condone, accept, etc. and if we don't then we feel ashamed about it. WHY IS THIS?! For example: If I ever get into a relationship...

I just found an old post from this forum posted 2.5 years ago by a user named 'bookbinder' that I can't help but copy and paste into this thread. This is from an old thread called - 'To those of you who are single and usually feel hopeless about finding love...' The part I highlighted in bold...

Yea, that's another one. Although I would modify it and say: Love steals your independence and you know that before going in but you ******* do it anyway and regret it later just like you knew you would. I think we all fall in love with these negative thoughts with the hope you can prove...

Sigh, I guess this is what I get for generalizing, but perhaps you're right. Although those men are rare I think, not to mention complete douchebags. No, I don't. Do you think a female janitor has any reason to say yes to every man that shows attention to her? Looks will always be the main...