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PurpleDays I think "fair weather friend" is a perfect description. I intend to treat her as she's treating me...if I bump into her in the hallway I'll say "hi", but I'm not going to initiate any conversations. I've tried to talk to her about how she makes me feel many times before, calmly and...

Yeah... I kinda figured that out about 20 years ago. Haha

Futurecatlady Thank you so much for posting this thread. Even though I know you're hurting right now, you should know how much you just brightened my day. (that sounds strange, huh...) I just posted a new thread about my coworker, and it's the exact same situation as yours. You just summed it...

I think we have the same therapist. :-). She told me that her husband isn't the most handsome, outgoing guy in the world; he's rather quiet, but he treats her like a queen. I'm rather quiet myself in the beginning until I get to know someone. I haven't given up yet, and you shouldn't either...

Haven I think you are my long-lost twin! I am constantly told to "lighten up" and that I overanalyze everything. I can have fun...just not the type of fun most people like (going out drinking and acting like a fool). I think your advice is great; thank you. :-)

Hi everyone  I'm a newbie here, and this is my first post. I take great comfort in reading all of your stories because it shows me that I am not alone in my...loneliness. :-) The big issue I am dealing with right now has to do with a coworker I've known for almost 10 years, and is someone whom...