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You're welcome. But in rereading my post, I see my wording's slightly off. I'd pay my own cab fare and leave the tab for coffee/drinks/whatever to the gentleman.

Were I in your situation, while on IM with a potential date, I'd do some webcam chats, or Skype. That way, we could both see each other and get a much better idea about mutual attraction (or revulsion). ;o) I'd also put in my profile, in very plain wording, that I was looking for a long-term...

Only you can answer that question, Wishing Well. ARE you comparing them to your late husband? If so, why and in what ways? To what end? When you go out with a new man, do you feel no attraction to him before the date? If not, why do you go out with him? Are you hoping to develop an...

This is coming from someone with three full years of individual and group therapy under her belt. You've established mutual attraction. Any further involvement in your current group, without consulting your therapist, is a very BAD thing. Your own progress will come to a screeching halt, as...

'Normal' is a setting on a washing machine. It has nothing to do with society. Accept yourself the way you are, then seek out others of like mind. I never understood the idea of trying to fit into the herd.

Most of those people are attractive and not in least monstrous. bad example. :P Monstrous? No. But pretty damned fugly. :cool:

If good looks were the requirement for social skills/popularity/success, then how do you explain: Steven Hawking Albert Einstein Don Knotts Gary Shandling Tom Petty Bob Dylan Rodney Dangerfield Eleanor Roosevelt Michael Jackson (post-op) Mick Jagger Keith Richards Carrot Top Prince Charles Yoko...

"Nice to meet another INTJ! There's a bunch of us lurking around on the internet here and there" Hahahaha! I think the internet's the ONLY place we lurk. Well, that and laboratories or libraries.

Thread's too long to read every page, so I'm just gonna jump in on the 'bad boy' thing. Keep in mind that this is coming from an older woman with an almost infallible bullshit detector. Women who go for bad boys have low self-esteem. It's not that they reject nice guys, it's that they're...

You feel cruel cutting someone who's mean to you. So, you're a masochist?

LMAO at the crap being spewed here. Listen, if you just want someone to fresia, put an ad on craigslist. If you want someone to love, see a therapist to work out your anger/insecurity issues first. No quality woman wants an angry, insecure man.

'Steal' implies that something/someone is 'owned.' You can't 'steal' a person. You can alienate their affection, but you can't steal them (unless you're a kidnapper or a slaver, of course). If someone's not married they're fair game -- unless they're dating a friend that you want to keep as a...

1) Someone you respect and admire, and who respects and admires you. 2) Must have a strong spine and be willing to stand up for their partner, no matter the cost. 3) Loyalty and devotion. 4) Common interests or willingness to try new things in order to establish some common interests. 5)...

Thanks for the welcome, everybody. It's good to meet you all.

I = 88% N = 100% T = 100% J - 22% Yeah, I'm a freak. I've only had two real friends in my life. One is an INFJ, the other was an INTJ (but he died eleven years ago).

Hi all, Just found this forum today and have been looking around a bit. I'm wondering if there are many older folks here? I'm 52, female, single, and child-free. Although I've always been alone, I've only recently begun to feel lonely and would like to meet some new friends.