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Can't get the girls I like to like me back - Help!!!!
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(06-21-2020, 12:10 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote:
(06-21-2020, 12:00 AM)Finished Wrote: Blah blah blah, I'm the expert on women.....

 

Okay, let me ask this.  You seem to claim to know more about women than the actual women giving advice.  Why is that?  What makes you more of an expert on women than the women themselves?  That seems to be a common theme on this forum.  The women give advice, only to have the men come in and "tell it like it really is," essentially saying we are liars.
Simple truth of the matter is, just like men, every woman is an individual and likes/dislikes certain things.  Some do go for the bad boy types, some do want the guy who is going to take care of them, and some just want someone to enhance their life without worrying about what a man can offer them aside from companionship and love.  


To Ska, instead of trying to impress everyone else, why not try to impress yourself?  You don't really seem to have a high opinion of yourself and maybe that's the reason it hasn't happened for you yet.



You quoted something that I did not say. You must not have read what I wrote either. I'll compare actual quotes from both of us:

I said:
Quote:Different woman want to be played in different ways. You just have to figure out what game to play and go all in. 
 
Now here is a quote from what you said:
Quote:Simple truth of the matter is, just like men, every woman is an individual and likes/dislikes certain things. 

Damn, that sure sounds close to the same thing. People are different. I said it from a guy's point of view to another guy who asked the question. You said it back to me as if I was completely off base while attempting to criticize me.

Maybe it's best you read something first and analyze it before you misquote and wrongly criticize it.
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#42
(06-23-2020, 05:19 PM)TheSkaFish Wrote: @everyone,

just saying, I hear your opinions and all, I'm not going to tell you how to feel. But this is my thread, and I don't want it to be closed, at least not as long as I'm still a member here. I'm currently in the process of jotting down some stuff from threads I liked, saying some farewells, just tidying up before I go. After that happens, I don't care. But I don't want my threads derailed as long as I'm still here, because I'm still using them. Most of this last page aside from the first two posts and Callie's, isn't really about what I was talking about, and since this thread is mine, I'd prefer to use it to just keep it about me and my experiences. I didn't want to talk about men and women as a whole, just about my situation.

I only restarted this thread at all because it seemed like an appropriate place to say that one of these situations that was getting me down for a long time, was resolved. I wanted to say something, somewhere, to give it some finality. And also just to talk a bit about what I was feeling from there.

Again this. We're getting further away from what I was talking about. I wasn't even intending to start drama, it's not so much that I've changed my opinions (I've changed some, not others) but also things are the way they are, getting caught up in drama on here is useless, it's just a distraction. Can we please chill because we know what will happen but this thread is mine and I don't want that. At least until I'm gone. Thanks

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#43
skafish I do think outcast women are more likely to be interested in getting to know us. All my friends are outcasts.

The funny thing is, all the men i know who are successful with women all have a knack for promoting themselves. They do this in many ways, but one way is standing ontop of other men to make themselves look higher value. They do this by trashing other men, either to his face or behind his back, in an attempt to look more competent to onlookers. This behavior is so common that if you do not engage in it or even refrain from participating in it, then you are judged as weak and low value.
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(06-30-2020, 03:55 PM)michael2 Wrote: skafish I do think outcast women are more likely to be interested in getting to know us.  All my friends are outcasts.

The funny thing is, all the men i know who are successful with women all have a knack for promoting themselves.  They do this in many ways, but one way is standing ontop of other men to make themselves look higher value.  They do this by trashing other men, either to his face or behind his back, in an attempt to look more competent to onlookers.  This behavior is so common that if you do not engage in it or even refrain from participating in it, then you are judged as weak and low value.

So true! I think I posted on here a few years ago about how I went to a Magic the Gathering Tournament, and as a MTG player I will say, we are all a little weird. Anyways, those guys were so attractive because they were in their element. They were dominating the other men in their way. 

And yes to the outcast with outcast.
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