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family issues
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(01-04-2019, 08:45 AM)opex100 Wrote: fuck your bullet points

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#12
That took a long time to read. Please try to use capitalization, at least at the beginning of the sentence. It would make it so much easier to read through.

Okay, first thing I want to say is that you really don't understand alcoholism at all. I would suggest checking out Alanon, which is for the families of the alcoholics/drug addicts/whathaveyou. It will really help you understand better and give you tools to not make it worse. Just because she "wants" help when she's drunk doesn't mean she really wants help. If she hides from it when she's sober, that means she's not ready yet and no matter what you do, she will not get help or help herself. Here's a thought, don't let her in? Lock the door, change the locks, whatever, just don't let her in if she's drunk. Stop enabling her.

You also seem to have a major problem with anger management. I would suggest getting yourself help with that because it is really not healthy. And you will seriously hurt someone one of these days if you don't do something about it now. Doesn't matter how you feel in the moment, if you really want to hurt someone when you are mad and you actually do, you will regret it later. Get yourself help.

And lastly, are you sure she doesn't have some kind of mental problems? Drugs for ADD/ADHD do have side effects that can be severe, especially if you take them long enough. ADD/ADHD drugs have been linked to psychotic episodes. So maybe she's not lying about that.
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I think I like bullet points now. 😏
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