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For all of you who don't know the details of what I am talking about, here is a link to the original thread where I talked about this group that I had a problem with.
https://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=39243
Now, this whatsapp group still pops up in my head now and again. I have reached a point where I recognize that it wasn't all that. The thing with Meetup is that it is public - anyone can join groups, and anyone can attend events. So it wasn't like I considered these people to be true friends.
While I could understand that what I said on this whatsapp group could have been viewed in a negative light, I still can't help but feel that the way these people reacted was very unfair. And the way this girl just blocked all contact with me without explanation, despite her knowing that I meant no malice behind what I said, and that there was no way it could have hurt her feelings.
Am I justified at thinking of this girl negatively, or am I being childish harboring resentment towards her? I'm fishing for honesty here - I won't get defensive or upset if I hear the truth. Perhaps some of you have your own stories of how you managed to let go.
https://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=39243
Now, this whatsapp group still pops up in my head now and again. I have reached a point where I recognize that it wasn't all that. The thing with Meetup is that it is public - anyone can join groups, and anyone can attend events. So it wasn't like I considered these people to be true friends.
While I could understand that what I said on this whatsapp group could have been viewed in a negative light, I still can't help but feel that the way these people reacted was very unfair. And the way this girl just blocked all contact with me without explanation, despite her knowing that I meant no malice behind what I said, and that there was no way it could have hurt her feelings.
Am I justified at thinking of this girl negatively, or am I being childish harboring resentment towards her? I'm fishing for honesty here - I won't get defensive or upset if I hear the truth. Perhaps some of you have your own stories of how you managed to let go.