I'm in my late 20s and was an only child and had no cousins. I had friends in school but not many. I have spent most of my life alone, outside of contact with my parents.
I've only had one semi-serious relationship. Semi-serious because it was a long-distance relationship and only saw each other once. Been trying consistently after that relationship ended looking for another girlfriend. 2 1/2 years of failure after failure has really deterred me from caring about whether or not I'll find someone in the future. I should note that I am able to find girls just for sex... just in-case you think i'm a virgin/nerd that can't get laid.
It's gotten to the point now where I believe that because I've been alone my entire life that even if I did find the perfect girl, I don't think that I would be able to spend that much time with her physically only because I'm so accustomed to being by myself. I am confident in myself. I believe that I am more attractive than the average person. But I'm unable to find someone that is worth calling a partner.
I'm making this topic to ask for suggestions and see if anybody else feels similarly to me. I find that a lot of girls want me to talk to them and put in all of the effort to maintain contact and build a relationship. I am the type of person that waits for someone to contact them first. I am never someone to reach out to someone first. Just feels like every girl that I talked to doesn't care about me as much as I would care about them. They make up excuses about them being too busy and blow off any plans that we had made during the week for dinner or a movie or anything.
It's very difficult to be in the situation because you see everyone else have a significant other and their happy, there able to talk to them, and be with someone physically and I'm 20 years straight by myself independent and have no one to physically be with outside of friends and family. I'm at a loss and I'm to the point now where I've nearly given up finding somebody because it just seems like a waste of time.
Hopefully I phrased this in a way that someone else other than me reading it can understand. If you took the time to read this thank you. I welcome any and all suggestions, information, or criticism you may have.
I've only had one semi-serious relationship. Semi-serious because it was a long-distance relationship and only saw each other once. Been trying consistently after that relationship ended looking for another girlfriend. 2 1/2 years of failure after failure has really deterred me from caring about whether or not I'll find someone in the future. I should note that I am able to find girls just for sex... just in-case you think i'm a virgin/nerd that can't get laid.
It's gotten to the point now where I believe that because I've been alone my entire life that even if I did find the perfect girl, I don't think that I would be able to spend that much time with her physically only because I'm so accustomed to being by myself. I am confident in myself. I believe that I am more attractive than the average person. But I'm unable to find someone that is worth calling a partner.
I'm making this topic to ask for suggestions and see if anybody else feels similarly to me. I find that a lot of girls want me to talk to them and put in all of the effort to maintain contact and build a relationship. I am the type of person that waits for someone to contact them first. I am never someone to reach out to someone first. Just feels like every girl that I talked to doesn't care about me as much as I would care about them. They make up excuses about them being too busy and blow off any plans that we had made during the week for dinner or a movie or anything.
It's very difficult to be in the situation because you see everyone else have a significant other and their happy, there able to talk to them, and be with someone physically and I'm 20 years straight by myself independent and have no one to physically be with outside of friends and family. I'm at a loss and I'm to the point now where I've nearly given up finding somebody because it just seems like a waste of time.
Hopefully I phrased this in a way that someone else other than me reading it can understand. If you took the time to read this thank you. I welcome any and all suggestions, information, or criticism you may have.