wandering artist
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My head spilled on a page-
Currently studying in my 2nd year at uni and so far it hasn't been as lonely as the last. Last year i always sat alone, studied hard and only briefly spoke to a handful of people. Since starting again for 2009 in the week that's passed I've met heaps of people that i knew by face but never actually met and many new arrivals. This is mainly due to me taking some initiative and signing up to become a mentor for 1st years.
This has been really great but i still feel a sense of loneliness. I'm shy, i can also be very nervous around people i've never met. This is evident with the fact that i've never been in a relationship. After much heart ache i've deduced that i'll be alone for some time. Having friends around you is one thing but to have an intamacy with someone who will always be there is another. I really want to have that! Im starting to dispise seeing couples and i see them everyday on the train. It makes me sad.
I thought my close high school buddies would be enough, hanging out and such but they aren't always there...
Surprisingly though i have many female friends from my later years of high school, being a late bloomer, those friendships are great and i wish for those friendships to remain just that. I've had a lot of unrequitted feelings and heart ache. I could tell one bereaved tale which still hurts me but it would take a lot out of me right this very moment. If any would like to hear it just say the word, it would be great to let it out.
I want to say so very much more but im having difficulty forming them into cohesive sentences, plus it would be here all night explaing myself.
One minute i feel on top of the world and that i can do everything and next im feeling worthless and down. What's wrong with me?
thank you for reading my head spill
Currently studying in my 2nd year at uni and so far it hasn't been as lonely as the last. Last year i always sat alone, studied hard and only briefly spoke to a handful of people. Since starting again for 2009 in the week that's passed I've met heaps of people that i knew by face but never actually met and many new arrivals. This is mainly due to me taking some initiative and signing up to become a mentor for 1st years.
This has been really great but i still feel a sense of loneliness. I'm shy, i can also be very nervous around people i've never met. This is evident with the fact that i've never been in a relationship. After much heart ache i've deduced that i'll be alone for some time. Having friends around you is one thing but to have an intamacy with someone who will always be there is another. I really want to have that! Im starting to dispise seeing couples and i see them everyday on the train. It makes me sad.
I thought my close high school buddies would be enough, hanging out and such but they aren't always there...
Surprisingly though i have many female friends from my later years of high school, being a late bloomer, those friendships are great and i wish for those friendships to remain just that. I've had a lot of unrequitted feelings and heart ache. I could tell one bereaved tale which still hurts me but it would take a lot out of me right this very moment. If any would like to hear it just say the word, it would be great to let it out.
I want to say so very much more but im having difficulty forming them into cohesive sentences, plus it would be here all night explaing myself.
One minute i feel on top of the world and that i can do everything and next im feeling worthless and down. What's wrong with me?
thank you for reading my head spill