Hello. I don't know if this is the right place to post this and this is a difficult post to post so please bear with me.
I am Andy's Aunty. I understand that he was an active member of this board and I have not been able to ascertain his username that he was posting with.
I am hoping that you may identify who he was posting as.
Andy has been institutionalised. This occurred some 5 or 6 months ago. It was perhaps inevitable and he is better placed where he is now. It is a distressing time for him and the family, but as a long or short term option there was not any real choice.
His mental illness was such that medication was not enough and he was suffering. The demands of the world to conform were a little too much for him to bear.
That said I have never seen him talk with such affection and caring for any people outside of his fairytale book, like he has the people here. It took me a while to find this place and I am delighted to have found it.
Andy is 16 and has a number of conditions amoung which is Schizophrenia. This onset very early maybe pre-teens which is unusual and a lot earlier than his Father. I suspect that the heart condition and the related lack of socialisation as a child with peers may have had something to do with it.
I have seen him especially in the last two years withdraw more and more from reality and losing himself in imaginary world of the Lord of the Rings.
That said I saw for some weeks an improvement and him talking about actual people! Real people! People with fantastic names like SofiaGrace, Bluey, Brian, Nerdygirl, KimberleyKat, Cas, Starstrider, Sucker and sorry a host of other names.
I read the Lord of the Rings many years ago, and to be honest have had my fill of it in recent years, but was sure that there was no person in it called Bluey!
I questioned him and he came alive with a flood of stories and hopes and...genuine caring. He loved it here. You guys meant the world to him.
Such a fantastic idea this forum. A lonely forum for lonely people and there was never a more lonely isolated teenager than Andy. Up until 6 months ago I saw such immense improvement in him generally and I suspect it was entirely this little forum.
Again without wanting to miss anyone and I know that I will, He let me know that he thinks that SofiaGrace was about the nicest and sweetest person here, he hopes that Brain asks out the girl with the key (?), He wants Kimberley that she ought not to be so sad with such a pretty smile, He says that CAS is awesome regardless of what anyone says and that he is a cool guy. Nerdy girl looks like (some elf girl - sorry Nerdygirl I did not remember the name but it was complimentary I assure you), Bluey he asked to remain strong and says that he had a scary Dad like his (my Brother in Law. Bluey you have my sympathy too), Strider he says is "Down with The Rings" (Could not help but laugh)
Yes there were other tales and hopes and interest and caring. He even said that he thought you all needed protecting. From what I can't imagine, but he was trying to style himself as a protector The heartbreaking thing is that he never realised that HE needed protecting, and now he has it, and he will be so much better for it.
I write this because you are worth it and in a few short weeks or maybe months, you all had been a very big part of his life, and I did not want you to miss seeing his posts and wondering at his absense these last six months.
Thank you so much for being so good and kind to him. He is a good kid and he needed so much for friends and acceptance and to not be laughed at or scorned or ostracised. Lord knows he has had enough of that to last a lifetime.
Means a lot that you advertise as a forum for lonely people and that you truly look after the lonely and help them feel wanted, like you did my dear nephew.
It is nearing Christmas and whilst I can visit him in the institution I can also bear the gift of goodwill on you all who looked after him.
Please feel free to leave a message or two and I will pass on your regards on next visit.
Thanks again
Aunty Lucy.
I am Andy's Aunty. I understand that he was an active member of this board and I have not been able to ascertain his username that he was posting with.
I am hoping that you may identify who he was posting as.
Andy has been institutionalised. This occurred some 5 or 6 months ago. It was perhaps inevitable and he is better placed where he is now. It is a distressing time for him and the family, but as a long or short term option there was not any real choice.
His mental illness was such that medication was not enough and he was suffering. The demands of the world to conform were a little too much for him to bear.
That said I have never seen him talk with such affection and caring for any people outside of his fairytale book, like he has the people here. It took me a while to find this place and I am delighted to have found it.
Andy is 16 and has a number of conditions amoung which is Schizophrenia. This onset very early maybe pre-teens which is unusual and a lot earlier than his Father. I suspect that the heart condition and the related lack of socialisation as a child with peers may have had something to do with it.
I have seen him especially in the last two years withdraw more and more from reality and losing himself in imaginary world of the Lord of the Rings.
That said I saw for some weeks an improvement and him talking about actual people! Real people! People with fantastic names like SofiaGrace, Bluey, Brian, Nerdygirl, KimberleyKat, Cas, Starstrider, Sucker and sorry a host of other names.
I read the Lord of the Rings many years ago, and to be honest have had my fill of it in recent years, but was sure that there was no person in it called Bluey!
I questioned him and he came alive with a flood of stories and hopes and...genuine caring. He loved it here. You guys meant the world to him.
Such a fantastic idea this forum. A lonely forum for lonely people and there was never a more lonely isolated teenager than Andy. Up until 6 months ago I saw such immense improvement in him generally and I suspect it was entirely this little forum.
Again without wanting to miss anyone and I know that I will, He let me know that he thinks that SofiaGrace was about the nicest and sweetest person here, he hopes that Brain asks out the girl with the key (?), He wants Kimberley that she ought not to be so sad with such a pretty smile, He says that CAS is awesome regardless of what anyone says and that he is a cool guy. Nerdy girl looks like (some elf girl - sorry Nerdygirl I did not remember the name but it was complimentary I assure you), Bluey he asked to remain strong and says that he had a scary Dad like his (my Brother in Law. Bluey you have my sympathy too), Strider he says is "Down with The Rings" (Could not help but laugh)
Yes there were other tales and hopes and interest and caring. He even said that he thought you all needed protecting. From what I can't imagine, but he was trying to style himself as a protector The heartbreaking thing is that he never realised that HE needed protecting, and now he has it, and he will be so much better for it.
I write this because you are worth it and in a few short weeks or maybe months, you all had been a very big part of his life, and I did not want you to miss seeing his posts and wondering at his absense these last six months.
Thank you so much for being so good and kind to him. He is a good kid and he needed so much for friends and acceptance and to not be laughed at or scorned or ostracised. Lord knows he has had enough of that to last a lifetime.
Means a lot that you advertise as a forum for lonely people and that you truly look after the lonely and help them feel wanted, like you did my dear nephew.
It is nearing Christmas and whilst I can visit him in the institution I can also bear the gift of goodwill on you all who looked after him.
Please feel free to leave a message or two and I will pass on your regards on next visit.
Thanks again
Aunty Lucy.