NarcolepticInsomniac
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I need some advice...
[Start Backstory]
So I've been on a depression streak ever since my best friend nearly ruined by birthday (long story short: she kept arguing with her boyfriend the entire day and night over something that wasn't his fault). Ever since then, I've been avoiding hanging with people who were in relationship. As a result, I've been hopelessly alone no matter how much I try to connect with people. Now my other best friend wants me to meet his boyfriend after he returned from choir camp and he wants me to go to the RenFaire with them. The problem is, I know he honestly doesn't want to try to re-connect and hang with them at the RenFaire. He only invited me because he was talking to a friend of his about it and just invited me because he felt bad about it. Basically out of pity and I hate that. The real reason he wants me to go is just to meet his boyfriend and nothing else. Since then, I refused to go because of dozens of reasons but mainly the one I just listed.
My question is this: Am I over-reacting to this because I'm paranoid or am I justified in refusing to go?
[Start Backstory]
So I've been on a depression streak ever since my best friend nearly ruined by birthday (long story short: she kept arguing with her boyfriend the entire day and night over something that wasn't his fault). Ever since then, I've been avoiding hanging with people who were in relationship. As a result, I've been hopelessly alone no matter how much I try to connect with people. Now my other best friend wants me to meet his boyfriend after he returned from choir camp and he wants me to go to the RenFaire with them. The problem is, I know he honestly doesn't want to try to re-connect and hang with them at the RenFaire. He only invited me because he was talking to a friend of his about it and just invited me because he felt bad about it. Basically out of pity and I hate that. The real reason he wants me to go is just to meet his boyfriend and nothing else. Since then, I refused to go because of dozens of reasons but mainly the one I just listed.
My question is this: Am I over-reacting to this because I'm paranoid or am I justified in refusing to go?