Have you backstabbed? (hard thing to admit I know)
Have you ever been the victim? (almost everyone?)
I guess I'd have to reluctantly say "yes" to both.
I told someone at work something about a colleague that was nasty. "he can't be trusted". It was my feeling at the time. Well, wouldn't you know it. The person heard about it on the grapevine and confronted me on it. I tried to explain how the context was different and my feeling had changed since. No effect. Damage done. Reputation at work zero and getting lower.
And yes have been backstabbed several times. And "no" didn't confront them on it.
Have you ever been the victim? (almost everyone?)
I guess I'd have to reluctantly say "yes" to both.
I told someone at work something about a colleague that was nasty. "he can't be trusted". It was my feeling at the time. Well, wouldn't you know it. The person heard about it on the grapevine and confronted me on it. I tried to explain how the context was different and my feeling had changed since. No effect. Damage done. Reputation at work zero and getting lower.
And yes have been backstabbed several times. And "no" didn't confront them on it.