LonelySutton
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I am not sure how this happened but when I was younger I felt like I had a universe of people that were good. They were interesting, kind, not users. Perhaps there were a few that were users. But lately... I look around and I feel lonely because the only people left from which to choose who I socialize with are horrible.
a. Users. I mean, they don't even try to hide it anymore. A "friend" has come down a few times to my office and said, we should go to lunch. Yet, she never coordinates that. But this week she comes down to an event. I say, we should go out later but she says no she doesn't have time. So she wants to go to an event and I am supposed to go to that with her.. but that is it. USER. I seriously have about 30 people who just use me.
b. People who don't want to use me are just horrible. I have a cousin I always thought was weird and strange but I was determined to attempt to be friendly with her. I recently went to lunch with her it was so horrible. One of the worst parts is that she comes from this place of bossiness and telling me what to do. I felt horrible after going to lunch with her and I thought, why am I doing it?
c. if you are not a user and not horrible... I am usually pretty happy, but sometimes I know people that are just so boring. I have someone who could be a good friend but she is obsessed with needlepoint and always talks about it, and I am sorry, it is extremely boring. Anther person who simply cannot refrain from talking about travel to the middle east (she thinks it is exotic) but after the 500th story, I get bored.
I feel lonely because my universe is so lacking these days. How do you find good solid interesting people? I can't find them.
a. Users. I mean, they don't even try to hide it anymore. A "friend" has come down a few times to my office and said, we should go to lunch. Yet, she never coordinates that. But this week she comes down to an event. I say, we should go out later but she says no she doesn't have time. So she wants to go to an event and I am supposed to go to that with her.. but that is it. USER. I seriously have about 30 people who just use me.
b. People who don't want to use me are just horrible. I have a cousin I always thought was weird and strange but I was determined to attempt to be friendly with her. I recently went to lunch with her it was so horrible. One of the worst parts is that she comes from this place of bossiness and telling me what to do. I felt horrible after going to lunch with her and I thought, why am I doing it?
c. if you are not a user and not horrible... I am usually pretty happy, but sometimes I know people that are just so boring. I have someone who could be a good friend but she is obsessed with needlepoint and always talks about it, and I am sorry, it is extremely boring. Anther person who simply cannot refrain from talking about travel to the middle east (she thinks it is exotic) but after the 500th story, I get bored.
I feel lonely because my universe is so lacking these days. How do you find good solid interesting people? I can't find them.