jales
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When I came to this site, and at certain points I was suicidal. And I did not always say the most polite things.
I think we mostly know that the reason most people are here is because in some way they have been rejected by people in the non-cyber world.
Banning people in the place where they have come when they are lonely feels really wrong. What if someone is banned here and that night they really have no one and try to kill themselves. And succeed.
Yes it sounds far fetched but I say this also because; this is going to sound bad, but I remember one night when I had no net and I tried to call someone but they were busy, I felt so rejected and I had no net, no alonelylife (yea I know i'm a crazy person) but yes I did really come way tooooo close to suicide.
I was lucky the only thing I had was pills that didnt do anything but make me sick.
My point is that I'm asking the moderators to
one...please try not to make people regardless of how mean they may seem feel unwanted, or rejected, because believe me that just adds to their pain. And yes you can stick up for someone a person insults without making the person themselves feel bad.
And two.. is it at all possible to ban people but restrict them to their own section of the forum so that they can still be a part of alonelylife and so that others can talk to them and they can talk to each other but so that they can not post in every single section?
Like in the same way that guest were able to post in only one section. If it is possible and the only issues is lack of a moderator, then I volunteer to be one of the moderators for this section.
Anyway this goes out to the moderators, and everyone in fact. Do you'll think this is a good idea? Do you'll think it is possible?
I think we mostly know that the reason most people are here is because in some way they have been rejected by people in the non-cyber world.
Banning people in the place where they have come when they are lonely feels really wrong. What if someone is banned here and that night they really have no one and try to kill themselves. And succeed.
Yes it sounds far fetched but I say this also because; this is going to sound bad, but I remember one night when I had no net and I tried to call someone but they were busy, I felt so rejected and I had no net, no alonelylife (yea I know i'm a crazy person) but yes I did really come way tooooo close to suicide.
I was lucky the only thing I had was pills that didnt do anything but make me sick.
My point is that I'm asking the moderators to
one...please try not to make people regardless of how mean they may seem feel unwanted, or rejected, because believe me that just adds to their pain. And yes you can stick up for someone a person insults without making the person themselves feel bad.
And two.. is it at all possible to ban people but restrict them to their own section of the forum so that they can still be a part of alonelylife and so that others can talk to them and they can talk to each other but so that they can not post in every single section?
Like in the same way that guest were able to post in only one section. If it is possible and the only issues is lack of a moderator, then I volunteer to be one of the moderators for this section.
Anyway this goes out to the moderators, and everyone in fact. Do you'll think this is a good idea? Do you'll think it is possible?