Ok, so I'm not trying to vent or feel sorry for myself at all. I just want to know if anyone has ever felt this way. Which is probably a very small exclusive club of people since there are hardly any people who are perpetually dateless. Although I have had someone interested in me online for a very short while but I totally messed up.
Like whenever I think about myself being in a relationship I cannot imagine it. Is it just because I have never been in one? It's like I cannot ever imagine anyone being interested in me ever. I can't think how anyone would not be repulsed by the way I look or how shy I am. I just cannot see anyone ever being interested in me.
Like when I look at a friend's profile on facebook for example and it says <insert name here> is in a relationship with <insert name here>. I cannot see that ever being next to my name. It just doesn't seem possible. Like trying to imagine myself kissing or even having sex, it just grosses me out because I feel so worthless. I just don't understand and cannot imagine someone who would actually do something like that with me. I can't make sense out of it. It's kind fo hard for me to explain, it's just a feeling that is there and feels perpetually empty.
It might be from the put downs and let downs all my life and me feeling worthless all the time. Or maybe the fact that some people have messed with me online have made me feel worse. It's like it is all in my mind and my mind cannot imagine myself in those situations. I can think and imagine my friends being in relationships but I can't for myself. Maybe it's just all this time of putting myself down. When I see a picture of myself, I just can't see it ever happening. Or look at myself and think someone would be interested in this person, it doesn't seem possible.
I really don't know how to explain it but is there anyone else who can relate to this? The problem of not being able to imagine yourself in a relationship or doing things involved with the opposite sex. Remember, I am not trying to feel sorry for myself or really vent. I just want to know if there are any of the very few people who feel perpetually dateless and have this problem with imagining and using your mind in such a way? Oh and is there something wrong of me for not being capable to think of myself in such acts or relationships at all?
Like whenever I think about myself being in a relationship I cannot imagine it. Is it just because I have never been in one? It's like I cannot ever imagine anyone being interested in me ever. I can't think how anyone would not be repulsed by the way I look or how shy I am. I just cannot see anyone ever being interested in me.
Like when I look at a friend's profile on facebook for example and it says <insert name here> is in a relationship with <insert name here>. I cannot see that ever being next to my name. It just doesn't seem possible. Like trying to imagine myself kissing or even having sex, it just grosses me out because I feel so worthless. I just don't understand and cannot imagine someone who would actually do something like that with me. I can't make sense out of it. It's kind fo hard for me to explain, it's just a feeling that is there and feels perpetually empty.
It might be from the put downs and let downs all my life and me feeling worthless all the time. Or maybe the fact that some people have messed with me online have made me feel worse. It's like it is all in my mind and my mind cannot imagine myself in those situations. I can think and imagine my friends being in relationships but I can't for myself. Maybe it's just all this time of putting myself down. When I see a picture of myself, I just can't see it ever happening. Or look at myself and think someone would be interested in this person, it doesn't seem possible.
I really don't know how to explain it but is there anyone else who can relate to this? The problem of not being able to imagine yourself in a relationship or doing things involved with the opposite sex. Remember, I am not trying to feel sorry for myself or really vent. I just want to know if there are any of the very few people who feel perpetually dateless and have this problem with imagining and using your mind in such a way? Oh and is there something wrong of me for not being capable to think of myself in such acts or relationships at all?