lookingforhappiness
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Hello everyone,
I am an international student in the US and feel very lonely. Unfortunately, I am alone here and since I am over 23 (but working on my bachelor's because I did not finish it at home), my classmates are not the best people to hang out with. Also, I have noticed (and many other non-Americans feel exactly the same way) that the vast majority of people in this country always have some hidden agenda!! They will never do anything for you unless they can rip you off (learned it the hard way)!!
Most Americans seem to have time only for socializing and you can absolutely never rely on them for anything unless you do something for them first or embarrass them in public, so they can feel guilty! In addition, most people in this country does not seem to have any moral values. Life here can be best described by the sayings "It's all about money" and "It's about the resume!" Most people here seem to have absolutely no real friends. What is more, marriages are not taken seriously and that is why 50% of the population is divorced.
Do you agree or disagree with what I am saying? I find it extremely difficult to find decent people here. I would appreciate it if you can give me some good advice about how to make GOOD/REAL friends my age (I am in my late 20's).
Thanks in advance!
I am an international student in the US and feel very lonely. Unfortunately, I am alone here and since I am over 23 (but working on my bachelor's because I did not finish it at home), my classmates are not the best people to hang out with. Also, I have noticed (and many other non-Americans feel exactly the same way) that the vast majority of people in this country always have some hidden agenda!! They will never do anything for you unless they can rip you off (learned it the hard way)!!
Most Americans seem to have time only for socializing and you can absolutely never rely on them for anything unless you do something for them first or embarrass them in public, so they can feel guilty! In addition, most people in this country does not seem to have any moral values. Life here can be best described by the sayings "It's all about money" and "It's about the resume!" Most people here seem to have absolutely no real friends. What is more, marriages are not taken seriously and that is why 50% of the population is divorced.
Do you agree or disagree with what I am saying? I find it extremely difficult to find decent people here. I would appreciate it if you can give me some good advice about how to make GOOD/REAL friends my age (I am in my late 20's).
Thanks in advance!