Can someone please just talk to me? ask me how my day was?

[caliber]

Hi Chrissy! I hope you had a better day today...you can always talk to me, PM me anytime you need someone to talk to...it may sound silly right now, but things will get better. You do seem like a very smart person, and I bet you have strength you aren't even aware you have..
You have friends here!!!

 

[tom_lonely]

I thought this would have been easy but I really don't know where to start!

Ok Here goes..

I'm feeling so lonely because no one actually speaks to me.

I'm 25 and I've never really had good friends I used to go to a private school and because my parents were so pre-occupied with their own problems they never really paid much attention except when my grades would come in. Even then it was a well done. I was never socially awkward I can communicate perfectly well with anyone and do well in social gatherings, it was just that I never had the same interests as the other people in my class. It was ok during school hours but when I would go home I used to cry because I knew that the other people would meet up.

After graduation I tried to keep in touch but most people went abroad to study and I went to university in my country and I was not missed. I tried to make friends at the university but it was either I was back-stabbed so many times or that I never fitted in the existing 'clinques'. I was an erasmus student and during that year I met my best friend she is the nicest person I could ever ask for. The year ended and its been 3 years since I have seen her and miss her so much it hurts just thinking of her. I live on an island and suffer from aviophobia so I can't visit her.

During these 3 years leading up to the present, I have become friends with some of my sister's friends and it was ok because even though we didn't really have much in common we went out partied and did stuff together. This will get really long so I will try to shorten this. My sister ended up backstabbing me so that she would get what she want (long story here) and has turned all of her friends against me. She was even trying to make it out as if I'm crazy and don't know what I'm talking about. She has also been manipulating my mother so she could do whatever she wants in our house. I've been more than supportive to my mother to the point where I almost became her personal therapist. I was so stressed out that I fainted twice and had heart problems.

I decided I had enough and these few days I've become so depressed I've locked my self in my room I deleted my facebook because I really do want to see where everyone has gone on holidays or how nice a time they've had, and my mother only knocks on the door to see if I'm still alive or not once she hears me answer she goes away and carries on with her day.Forgot to say that my phone has not rung once this past month no-one has wondered how I was.

I only want someone to call me and ask me whether I'm ok or need anything.

Please someone speak to me I haven't spoken to anyone for a week and I'm going crazy!

Not sure how old this post is (I didn't check) - but ... hello.

You can talk to me any time. PM me.

Sometimes I really need human contact as well.

 

[9006]

Hello Chrissy,

Hope I'm not too late to ask how your day was?? I know what you mean about the Facebook thing, but having said that, most people like to paint a happier-than-reality picture most of the time, so I wouldn't get too hung up on that.

Let me know if you need anything

*Yawn* Bed for me now anyway, night night.

 

[Thomas]]

I would be happy to talk with anyone of you here. You all seem like wonderful people! : )

Chrissy I think I know how you feel about having different interests from many of the people you know, and watching as they all split away... And knowing they are out meeting up while you're inside wondering what to do xD. I've been there! But not being part of the majority doesn't mean you shouldn't be happy, and certainly doesn't mean people shouldn't talk to you!

Say hi whenever you like

 

[Klemon]

Hi Chrissy and everyone else, how was your day? Mine was nothing special, although at least I can be glad nothing bad happened.

Apart from work I pretty much don't talk to people either, and at church I pretty much go home straight after saying hi to my Mum and Dad. I don't know what it is, but as much as I don't like hiding from the world, being out there makes me uncomfortable.

I absolutely hate the fact that I'm single and living alone but find myself completely unable to break out of it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is this: I wouldn't mind having someone to talk to either - which in essence is why we're all here
I'm new to this site, and relatively still very much in my shell (first post!), but if anyone wants to PM me I don't mind, and it just might do us both some good.