I work in a small grocery shop and I meet hundreds of people a week. I think lonely people come in 2 groups.
Firstly, the ones who come in and have a chat. They probably don't get chance to talk to anybody and our shop is the perfect opportunity. They chat about their lives, the weather, all sorts. It's non stop chatter.
Secondly, people who just don't have the confidence to talk. Shy, withdrawn types who don't seem capable of having conversations. They are always by themselves and they never talk to other customers.
As a side note, I served this really lonely looking woman last week and it felt like she was chatting me up. She normally never says a thing, always buys wine and looks very unhappy. She spoke on two occasions last week and the second time her questions seemed rehearsed. She asked me whether I was having a nice day and wished me a nice weekend.
I always make an effort with her and I am especially kind towards her, mainly because of how she is. I know lonely people can develop feelings towards shop people. I've been there myself a few times.
Firstly, the ones who come in and have a chat. They probably don't get chance to talk to anybody and our shop is the perfect opportunity. They chat about their lives, the weather, all sorts. It's non stop chatter.
Secondly, people who just don't have the confidence to talk. Shy, withdrawn types who don't seem capable of having conversations. They are always by themselves and they never talk to other customers.
As a side note, I served this really lonely looking woman last week and it felt like she was chatting me up. She normally never says a thing, always buys wine and looks very unhappy. She spoke on two occasions last week and the second time her questions seemed rehearsed. She asked me whether I was having a nice day and wished me a nice weekend.
I always make an effort with her and I am especially kind towards her, mainly because of how she is. I know lonely people can develop feelings towards shop people. I've been there myself a few times.