Cant do this anymore.
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I try not letting people get to me but life is honeysuckle and difficult especially when people just pick out your issues. Like the other day I got called a anorexic sl..t from a guy because I didn't say yes to doing what he wanted. Like, of course I'm insecure about being thin but like keep your shitty comments to yourself.
Roxiee, I'm going to assume that you're fairly young. People can only devastate you if you aren't centered. If I were to offer you any advice it would be to tell you that your priority - something I didn't learn until later - is to embrace exactly who you are and see yourself as valuable, because you are. Take a deep breath and like what you see and take delight in your body and all your life's joys. People will say all kinds of things to foist off their disappointments on you, but you are neither responsible nor should you be a victim to their frustrations. Smile. Most of us would find what he said an inadvertent compliment. And needless to say, he obviously found you attractive or he wouldn't have been so resentful that you were resistant. That was real message. Thanks!!
I'm 21 lol. Yeah true, sorry I just hate everything building things inside.
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
Hello welcome to the forum nice to meet you I am sorry that you are feeling alone if ever you need to converse you can reach out (if you would like to) I always like to converse with new ppl hope that you will find (establish many new connection or friends here or in life.)I'm alone. I have no one. Everywhere I go I'm being called anorexic. It's not my fault. Honestly don't want to be here anymore I've had enough
people are mean sometimes I am sorry, sometimes they do things to get attention, or to try and get a reaction out of you any type of reaction they will tell you things that they may not truly believe or say things that are not true just to see what it will do to you. Don't allow this to discourage you or make you lose hope in others for every person who act this way there is a opposite who wish to help others and build them up who truly care for ppl and wish to help them grow.
It's understandable you can let it out different ways there is plenty of healthy forms of expression to vent. What are some of your interests? hobbies? passions? what motivates you? drives you? you don't have to answer all of these or any, but I am just curious and would like to help you find a solution maybe to your problem the choice is yours though welcome again to the forum have a wonderful day hope to talk to you soon.
Hey, of course.Hello welcome to the forum nice to meet you I am sorry that you are feeling alone if ever you need to converse you can reach out (if you would like to) I always like to converse with new ppl hope that you will find (establish many new connection or friends here or in life.)
people are mean sometimes I am sorry, sometimes they do things to get attention, or to try and get a reaction out of you any type of reaction they will tell you things that they may not truly believe or say things that are not true just to see what it will do to you. Don't allow this to discourage you or make you lose hope in others for every person who act this way there is a opposite who wish to help others and build them up who truly care for ppl and wish to help them grow.
It's understandable you can let it out different ways there is plenty of healthy forms of expression to vent. What are some of your interests? hobbies? passions? what motivates you? drives you? you don't have to answer all of these or any, but I am just curious and would like to help you find a solution maybe to your problem the choice is yours though welcome again to the forum have a wonderful day hope to talk to you soon.
I like drawing, painting and animals! I like binge watching shows too
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
very interesting what do you enjoy drawing?
all animals I am assuming, what species of animal are your favorite?
can you recommend shows? I am out of date with the times lol
what types of shows do you enjoy?
I like any crime documentary, or ambulance programs! Here's something I drew took me two weeks!
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
it is very creative
you have a talent I love all things artistic, art, poetry, music, writing, philosophy, expression in general. you should make a thread that shows these talents I would love seeing it.
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Bam111
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btw I hope you don't mind this I am a bit of an instant message responder I don't want to hijack your thread. I am just curious by natureit is very creative
Aw sure I willit is very creative
!Oh that's fine
Bam111
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that's a relief I don't mean to it is just something that happens when I wish to engage and converse with others.Aw sure I will
Oh that's fine
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
if you ever wish to talk, I mean to truly engage you can reach out to me in pm at any time or we can chat here in an open setting either way I have nothing to hide the choice is yours whatever makes you more comfortable. Have a wonderful day
whatever makes you more comfortable. Have a wonderful day
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We can chat privately if you'd like? I don't mindif you ever wish to talk, I mean to truly engage you can reach out to me in pm at any time or we can chat here in an open setting either way I have nothing to hide the choice is yours
Honestly it's fine x
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
I will let you decide either way it's fine with me pm me if you would likeWe can chat privately if you'd like? I don't mind
Honestly it's fine x
I'll do that if that's okay with you?I will let you decide either way it's fine with me pm me if you would like
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
of course, it is feal free toI'll do that if that's okay with you?
Doneof course, it is feal free to
Bam111
Abandon your fear. Look forward.
don't do it just express yourself through art
