angel_in_view
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Hey guys/gals!
I have a question and wanted to know what you all think about it. If you date someone who has kid(s) but you don't, how much time do you think should go by before you meet the kid(s)? I've had friends who dated women w/kids and it seemed like the women almost instantly started bringing their kids around them. The relationships didn't last.
I have the opposite situation going on now. A female friend is dating a guy who has kids. I'm a little worried about her bc she really likes the guy & things are going well for them, but she's not interested in the kids at all. I told her that I really didn't understand how she could contemplate a future w/this guy if she never intended on getting to know the children. They are both in elementary school, so its not like they are grown and have their own lives. I just don't want her to end up having deeper feelings for this guy only to have it all blow up bc she finds out the dynamics w/her & kids won't work out. She feels like she doesn't need to be involved w/them bc they're not her's. She said she's dating him....not them and isn't trying to be a mother to them.
I have a question and wanted to know what you all think about it. If you date someone who has kid(s) but you don't, how much time do you think should go by before you meet the kid(s)? I've had friends who dated women w/kids and it seemed like the women almost instantly started bringing their kids around them. The relationships didn't last.
I have the opposite situation going on now. A female friend is dating a guy who has kids. I'm a little worried about her bc she really likes the guy & things are going well for them, but she's not interested in the kids at all. I told her that I really didn't understand how she could contemplate a future w/this guy if she never intended on getting to know the children. They are both in elementary school, so its not like they are grown and have their own lives. I just don't want her to end up having deeper feelings for this guy only to have it all blow up bc she finds out the dynamics w/her & kids won't work out. She feels like she doesn't need to be involved w/them bc they're not her's. She said she's dating him....not them and isn't trying to be a mother to them.