I have written on here before about a pushy neighbour/friend but now I need to again. When someone keeps pushing me about something, I find it hard to deal with and go away from them feeling stressed out, and going over and over it in my mind. The present issue is about my ISP. My neighbour/friend told me I could get a better deal (I agree, but want to check this out at my own pace and at a time I choose) and then today phoned me and told me she had phoned my ISP on my behalf, without asking me first or telling me she was going to do this, asking them what other deals they had. She then called me and asked me how much I was paying and what sort of account I had so that she could give them full information. I didn't tell her this. I told her that I intended to change accounts later this year but that I want to do it myself. I am having a lot of building work done soon and can't deal with anything else at present. Also, she is on at me to get Now TV instead of using an aerial and I said no about this as well. I know that I stood up to her, but I still feel bulldozed by her and I also feel so angry that she is trying to take over. Her intentions are good, but I don't want to be pushed. Has anyone else had to deal with this sort of thing?