I have a younger sister that I've been very close to most of my life. Over the past couple of years, she's developed some odd behaviors. I feel like she's isolating. She quit her job and her interests. She said all she wants to do is clean her apartment.
I tried calling her a couple of days ago. Mainly she likes to text, but sometimes I just want to talk. She didn't answer and sent me a text saying she was busy. That's all she said. She didn't say, "I'll call you back." Or, "What's up?" She just said that it was an inappropriate time to talk.
Well a whole day passed and still nothing from her. No text. No call. It's like whatever I needed didn't matter. This happens 90% of the time. I show her care and concern when she texts me with her problems. I think I'm going to stop saying anything to her. I'm going to quit asking about her day.
It will make me feel lonely to stop reaching out to her. But obviously she doesn't care about me. So why continue with a relationship? I just have to disown her.
I tried calling her a couple of days ago. Mainly she likes to text, but sometimes I just want to talk. She didn't answer and sent me a text saying she was busy. That's all she said. She didn't say, "I'll call you back." Or, "What's up?" She just said that it was an inappropriate time to talk.
Well a whole day passed and still nothing from her. No text. No call. It's like whatever I needed didn't matter. This happens 90% of the time. I show her care and concern when she texts me with her problems. I think I'm going to stop saying anything to her. I'm going to quit asking about her day.
It will make me feel lonely to stop reaching out to her. But obviously she doesn't care about me. So why continue with a relationship? I just have to disown her.