Cavey
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Recently, I've been reading about a UK barrister named Charlotte Proudman who appears to have stirred a hornet's nest by publicly accusing a senior solicitor of sexism and misogynism.
Apparently, the solicitor, commented on the profile photo that she had used on LinkedIn and said that it was "a stunning picture" and "one of the best I have seen on this site". She then went on to out him on the Internet for his apparent sexist and misogynistic behaviour. Now, it's all over the newspapers and I'm slightly puzzled. It just sounds like a throwaway compliment to me and in no way misogynistic.
You can read about it in more depth Here and Here
I wanted to see what the opinion of other people is. Is this genuinely a sexist remark? Is complimenting a photograph always considered sexist or is it because it was on LinkedIn which is a site whose primary purpose is to connect people in the same profession?
If it is sexist, did this woman overreact by taking it into the public arena rather than simply approaching the man himself and letting him know that the comment was unappreciated?
I've read many of her comments and she's compared LinkedIn to Tinder, accused men of using it solely as a dating tool, said that this would never happen to a man and keeps mentioning that he is twice her age - so would this somehow be less 'offensive' if he was the same age? I thought the problem was sexism?! I'm confused, either way.
I can understand that she did not appreciate the comment - however innocuous it appears to me - but I feel that she has massively overreacted and it could all have been handled so much better. Thoughts?
Apparently, the solicitor, commented on the profile photo that she had used on LinkedIn and said that it was "a stunning picture" and "one of the best I have seen on this site". She then went on to out him on the Internet for his apparent sexist and misogynistic behaviour. Now, it's all over the newspapers and I'm slightly puzzled. It just sounds like a throwaway compliment to me and in no way misogynistic.
You can read about it in more depth Here and Here
I wanted to see what the opinion of other people is. Is this genuinely a sexist remark? Is complimenting a photograph always considered sexist or is it because it was on LinkedIn which is a site whose primary purpose is to connect people in the same profession?
If it is sexist, did this woman overreact by taking it into the public arena rather than simply approaching the man himself and letting him know that the comment was unappreciated?
I've read many of her comments and she's compared LinkedIn to Tinder, accused men of using it solely as a dating tool, said that this would never happen to a man and keeps mentioning that he is twice her age - so would this somehow be less 'offensive' if he was the same age? I thought the problem was sexism?! I'm confused, either way.
I can understand that she did not appreciate the comment - however innocuous it appears to me - but I feel that she has massively overreacted and it could all have been handled so much better. Thoughts?