LadyDaria
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I have two friends... I wouldn't call them good friends but they are kind of the most special in my zone right now.
Lisa: a co worker at work... she probably doesn't seem to hear 1/2 of what I say. In a good way. Anything that I probably will regret saying she seems to not hear ... seriously and just doesn't remember it. She is someone I can completely rely on. I am not sure she does this for me.. I think, in general, she does it for everyone. I think, in some portion, she is friends with me because of pity. But also, I feel like she does depend on me at work as well. If I text her she will answer. If I call her she will pick up. Personally I find that AMAZING. There are very few in this world like that.
Susan: A former co worker. She is similar to Lisa in that if I say something stupid she seems to just look at me with this bemused look and moves on. She thinks I am very funny and laughs at a lot of what I say. She comes over my condo sometimes after work which is amazing. She lives close and helped me with my move. But, she is not has *always there for me* as Lisa is. She might come over and bring a mirror but I am on my own for installing it.
One problem with both of them... they are married with kids. So they have their real life to go back to when not around me.
I find it strange that I make friends with such people but...
Do you have any friends who you might actually turn to in pinch. What do you like about them and they you?
Lisa: a co worker at work... she probably doesn't seem to hear 1/2 of what I say. In a good way. Anything that I probably will regret saying she seems to not hear ... seriously and just doesn't remember it. She is someone I can completely rely on. I am not sure she does this for me.. I think, in general, she does it for everyone. I think, in some portion, she is friends with me because of pity. But also, I feel like she does depend on me at work as well. If I text her she will answer. If I call her she will pick up. Personally I find that AMAZING. There are very few in this world like that.
Susan: A former co worker. She is similar to Lisa in that if I say something stupid she seems to just look at me with this bemused look and moves on. She thinks I am very funny and laughs at a lot of what I say. She comes over my condo sometimes after work which is amazing. She lives close and helped me with my move. But, she is not has *always there for me* as Lisa is. She might come over and bring a mirror but I am on my own for installing it.
One problem with both of them... they are married with kids. So they have their real life to go back to when not around me.
I find it strange that I make friends with such people but...
Do you have any friends who you might actually turn to in pinch. What do you like about them and they you?