Okay so, I've talked about a few things on here that are kinda serious, but not stuff that's really, really personal. I feel like I need to tell someone, or just have someone else's perspective on a certain situation I'm in right now or something like that.
So I joined this forum like what, a month and a half ago? I spoken to various people met a few friends and stuff, but one person in particular has really stood out to me. I met him talking about whether this other dude I had been seeing was using me or not, about the way he acts and blahblah. I'll just refer to him as J as I'm not gonna mention names etc. We started using skype to speak to each other as we can't really text or anything, he lives in America and I live in England, so yeah it's kinda difficult with the time difference but we manage.
It's quite a difficult and weird situation actually because it's like, every night since we met we've talked, we've done video chats and just talked till I fall asleep. (because of the time difference it's quite late for me). But basically, we've grown to know each other alot, we talk about personal things often, and he's helped me through alot I must admit. The whole reason we first started talking, about this other guy who I liked and I got upset over, J has totally got rid of that hurt feeling. It's like, I knew I had to get over that guy I was seeing and I thought it was going to be hard, but since J has come on the scene, and we've been talking, it's like, all feelings for the other guy have gone, completely, and I've realised I didn't really like him that much after all?
J has made a huge impact on me, whether that's actually good or not I don't know but all I know is, this is gonna sound kinda freaky, but it's almost like I crave seeing and speaking to him. I think about him alot during the day, and I do mean alot. Everything I do it's like, he's always there in my mind, thinking about what it would be like to meet him, and see him face-to-face, wondering what he thinks about me, whether he's thinking about me aswel all that kinda stuff. + I've told him and he's told me the same, the way he thinks about me, and how much he cares about me. But it's a weird situation because I've always thought of long distance relationships as quite strange, and thinking you know, how can you love someone that you haven't met before? or how do you know you really care for someone that much without meeting them? But I suppose I'm one of those people that has to see and feel to believe certain things.
I can't describe how I feel about him it's quite strange, but a good strange? Like, when I think about him, I just find myself smiling, half the time not even realising, and my stomach gets butterflies like you wouldn't believe. I have had quite a few dreams about him aswel, which I suppose would happen considering I think about him alot.
The other night he went out with his friends and came back, slightly tipsey, and he made a video, just talking about his feelings at that moment which is what he likes to do to get things off his chest etc. He sent me the video, which he didn't really have any intention of showing me, but said he wanted me to see it. All I'll say is, my stomach was on overdrive, he was talking about his feelings for me, and exactly what I've put here really, about how it's a strange situation and it's not really something you expect to happen after little over a month of knowing someone, and them being in another fecking country. But the things he was saying about me, and talking about how much he cared just sent shivers, and I ended up getting into a mess, I started crying, was abit of both happy and sad really, just hearing him say that about me was unbelieveable, and also just knowing how lonely I had felt in the past, and not hearing anyone to ever say things like that about me made me cry aswel. Also the fact that he can't be here, or me be there with him, it hurts I have to admit. I just don't really know what to do with myself, I don't care if it's wrong or whatever to feel it, but I've fallen for him completely, and I adore him to pieces.
Just, what do I do?
So I joined this forum like what, a month and a half ago? I spoken to various people met a few friends and stuff, but one person in particular has really stood out to me. I met him talking about whether this other dude I had been seeing was using me or not, about the way he acts and blahblah. I'll just refer to him as J as I'm not gonna mention names etc. We started using skype to speak to each other as we can't really text or anything, he lives in America and I live in England, so yeah it's kinda difficult with the time difference but we manage.
It's quite a difficult and weird situation actually because it's like, every night since we met we've talked, we've done video chats and just talked till I fall asleep. (because of the time difference it's quite late for me). But basically, we've grown to know each other alot, we talk about personal things often, and he's helped me through alot I must admit. The whole reason we first started talking, about this other guy who I liked and I got upset over, J has totally got rid of that hurt feeling. It's like, I knew I had to get over that guy I was seeing and I thought it was going to be hard, but since J has come on the scene, and we've been talking, it's like, all feelings for the other guy have gone, completely, and I've realised I didn't really like him that much after all?
J has made a huge impact on me, whether that's actually good or not I don't know but all I know is, this is gonna sound kinda freaky, but it's almost like I crave seeing and speaking to him. I think about him alot during the day, and I do mean alot. Everything I do it's like, he's always there in my mind, thinking about what it would be like to meet him, and see him face-to-face, wondering what he thinks about me, whether he's thinking about me aswel all that kinda stuff. + I've told him and he's told me the same, the way he thinks about me, and how much he cares about me. But it's a weird situation because I've always thought of long distance relationships as quite strange, and thinking you know, how can you love someone that you haven't met before? or how do you know you really care for someone that much without meeting them? But I suppose I'm one of those people that has to see and feel to believe certain things.
I can't describe how I feel about him it's quite strange, but a good strange? Like, when I think about him, I just find myself smiling, half the time not even realising, and my stomach gets butterflies like you wouldn't believe. I have had quite a few dreams about him aswel, which I suppose would happen considering I think about him alot.
The other night he went out with his friends and came back, slightly tipsey, and he made a video, just talking about his feelings at that moment which is what he likes to do to get things off his chest etc. He sent me the video, which he didn't really have any intention of showing me, but said he wanted me to see it. All I'll say is, my stomach was on overdrive, he was talking about his feelings for me, and exactly what I've put here really, about how it's a strange situation and it's not really something you expect to happen after little over a month of knowing someone, and them being in another fecking country. But the things he was saying about me, and talking about how much he cared just sent shivers, and I ended up getting into a mess, I started crying, was abit of both happy and sad really, just hearing him say that about me was unbelieveable, and also just knowing how lonely I had felt in the past, and not hearing anyone to ever say things like that about me made me cry aswel. Also the fact that he can't be here, or me be there with him, it hurts I have to admit. I just don't really know what to do with myself, I don't care if it's wrong or whatever to feel it, but I've fallen for him completely, and I adore him to pieces.
Just, what do I do?