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Paraiyar
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So I've spent the last three nights in Warsaw and wil be on the train to Vienna in two hours. During this trip I've started to grow in confidence a bit and be more outgoing.
Anyway, while I was sitting in the hostel bar, one of the Polish girls who works in the hostel came up to get a herbal tea. I think to myself "what the hell, she's cute, I may as well ask her how its going." To my surprise, she says "I'll come talk with you in a second" and then proceeds to sit down and full on engage me in conversation
Turns out this girl is not only really pretty, she's intelligent, is doing a degree in Economics and has political views that I relate to and wouldn't have expected. We talk for ages and I ended up sharing her cigarette with her even though I don't smoke (haha).
She decides to go home as her shift is over and she is sick (another reason why I probably should not have shared her ciggy). I strongly believe that if a guy likes a girl then he should tell her to her face or not do it at all so as she goes to walk out I do just this.
At first because of the language barrier, she misunderstood and thought I was saying something else but then she realizes and smiles and hugs me and walks out. Not what I would consider a negative reaction.
Anyway she isn't in at work the next day because of study and wasn't in this morning because of her internship.
At this point I feel pretty frustrated because I've finally met a girl I really like where she seems to like me back and now it's probably going to be a non starter due to external circumstances. I have thought about cutting one of the cities I was planning to go to out and going back to Warsaw later on but I'm worried this might come on to strong for her and I need to know that her interest in me is strong enough for it to be worthwhile. Like a lot of women in Europe she seems pretty focused and pragmatic. I feel like any other girl I might meet in my travels will fall short of her for me and I definitely can't imagine meeting a girl like her in NZ, not knocking Kiwi women, I just don't think they are for me.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble, I don't crush that often but it seems like when I do, I crush quite hard.
Anyway, while I was sitting in the hostel bar, one of the Polish girls who works in the hostel came up to get a herbal tea. I think to myself "what the hell, she's cute, I may as well ask her how its going." To my surprise, she says "I'll come talk with you in a second" and then proceeds to sit down and full on engage me in conversation
Turns out this girl is not only really pretty, she's intelligent, is doing a degree in Economics and has political views that I relate to and wouldn't have expected. We talk for ages and I ended up sharing her cigarette with her even though I don't smoke (haha).
She decides to go home as her shift is over and she is sick (another reason why I probably should not have shared her ciggy). I strongly believe that if a guy likes a girl then he should tell her to her face or not do it at all so as she goes to walk out I do just this.
At first because of the language barrier, she misunderstood and thought I was saying something else but then she realizes and smiles and hugs me and walks out. Not what I would consider a negative reaction.
Anyway she isn't in at work the next day because of study and wasn't in this morning because of her internship.
At this point I feel pretty frustrated because I've finally met a girl I really like where she seems to like me back and now it's probably going to be a non starter due to external circumstances. I have thought about cutting one of the cities I was planning to go to out and going back to Warsaw later on but I'm worried this might come on to strong for her and I need to know that her interest in me is strong enough for it to be worthwhile. Like a lot of women in Europe she seems pretty focused and pragmatic. I feel like any other girl I might meet in my travels will fall short of her for me and I definitely can't imagine meeting a girl like her in NZ, not knocking Kiwi women, I just don't think they are for me.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble, I don't crush that often but it seems like when I do, I crush quite hard.