Mishka Starikov
New member
Hello my friends. There is something I'd like to tell you and I'm pleased to hear if you have something to comment.
Well, I have this female friend. We've been friends like for five years now and we have become really close to each other - Nothing sexual or emotional, just being really good friends.
During these five years she has been in various relationships so I really haven't considered that there could possibly be anything serious or sexual between us.
Now the situation is that she has broke out with her boyfriend (got caught of cheating) and now she has started approaching me. She has told me straight out that I can have her and we can have sex and everything.
The problem is that I feel awkward about the situation. The girl is attractive and I know her personally pretty good but still there is something that prevents me just go for her.
I feel that this would be a golden opportunity for me to have sex for a really long time but at the same time I feel that to me, sex is kind of a personal thing. In addition I've never really thought that there would be a day a really good long-term friend of mine would be asking me to have sex with her just like that.
Would it be normal that I'd just decline having sex with her and ask her to be just friends like before? I just feel that nowadays one major goal for many people in my age (21) is to get laid. To have sex. Why is it so a big deal? Am I a black sheep because I'm not willing to have sex with strangers? Not to mention with a long-term friend?
The feelings in my head are really ambivalent. I'm a really antisocial person and bad with women. That's why I'm thinking whether I'm mad because I'm letting an opportunity to have sex slip away from my hands.
Well, I have this female friend. We've been friends like for five years now and we have become really close to each other - Nothing sexual or emotional, just being really good friends.
During these five years she has been in various relationships so I really haven't considered that there could possibly be anything serious or sexual between us.
Now the situation is that she has broke out with her boyfriend (got caught of cheating) and now she has started approaching me. She has told me straight out that I can have her and we can have sex and everything.
The problem is that I feel awkward about the situation. The girl is attractive and I know her personally pretty good but still there is something that prevents me just go for her.
I feel that this would be a golden opportunity for me to have sex for a really long time but at the same time I feel that to me, sex is kind of a personal thing. In addition I've never really thought that there would be a day a really good long-term friend of mine would be asking me to have sex with her just like that.
Would it be normal that I'd just decline having sex with her and ask her to be just friends like before? I just feel that nowadays one major goal for many people in my age (21) is to get laid. To have sex. Why is it so a big deal? Am I a black sheep because I'm not willing to have sex with strangers? Not to mention with a long-term friend?
The feelings in my head are really ambivalent. I'm a really antisocial person and bad with women. That's why I'm thinking whether I'm mad because I'm letting an opportunity to have sex slip away from my hands.